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have you completed your high school? what kind of job are you looking for? try searching for the jobs on the net. Talk to your friends and relatives and ask them if they no of any opening.

oooh I am so sorry, yup at times it seems that there is no end to the pain but remember one thing…. Life and God are never unfair to anyone though we may think so… God definitely has a lot of happpiness stored for you. I hope he showers all his love and good faith on you. Take care and be happy

yup worked for me as well thanks

I know its pretty depressing but you can always use this site to remove your depression. Believe I was same like you but then I started to help people thru this site and its working wonders for me.. I am also thinking to join some oldage home so taht I can help the old people. You can try doing it as well not necessarily the old age home but anything that may generate a feel of being there for someone. Let me know if you join one and whether it helps you or not

I completely agree with Mas You need to stop thinking negatively and start to think positively. Believe in yourself and believe that this injury will not hamoper in you in any ways. Believe that you can do all your work yourself without the help of your relatives or care ttaker and try doing them as well. You may fail in starting but belive me in this case that if you keep on believing that you will be able to do it ..you will definitely do it.

Try searching on the net for cures as well inspiring stories read stories on positive outlook in life I am sure it will help you.

Get well soon and I wish the almighty gives you the strength and all the hapiness in your life.

Hey mark how do you add to friend I am kinda new to this site

Believe me you are not the only one. I have met a lot of people and for the fact even myself think the same way a lot of time. I think this comes from trying to satisfy other peoples expectation from us. What we tend to do more often than not is try to become someone who the other person wants rather than being our ownself and then later when that person is no longer with us we think that y did I react like this. As my self I should reacted in a different manner and then these things start to play in the mind and we thing that we are faking ourselves everywhere.

I think we should stop trying to impress others and show them the true side of ourself so that atleast we can trust ourself

thanks mark youve been a great help.. It really feels good now.. I will try to keep her happy without thinking of the past and give her all the love that I can.

Youve been like an angel for me cause i was very stressed by this situation. THanks a lot again hey can I add you to me friend list? Thanks again

thanks sheroo. youve provided a lot of info on this. Can I add u to my friend list?

Thank you guys.. thanks a lot for your answers

start talking to her more often (in person. Check out if she likes your company and if so ask her for a date. If you think she is trying to avoid you when you are talking to her, it probabley means she is no longer interested in you. You can try to hang around with other girls and check if she is jealous, if yes than you cn approach her again and this should work out for you.

thanks a lot mark……. but what should I do regarding the affair that she had previously… She still says that she didnot have any affair but i have found out through her previous mails. I want her to tell me the truth rather than me asking her about it now… help me cause i am not able to decide anything

Yup i agree. You need not put your husbands name in forums like this. Also the best medicine for you guys is conversation. Talk to each other as often as you can. Try to reproduce those beautiful moments that you both shared together. And yes give him one final chance to deal with his ex love and tell him just once that you love him, trust him and you are sure that he will not be unfaithful to you. Never again remind of his ex. I think this should work

At times job satisfaction is more important than money. If you would be getting enough money to support yourself and your family and saving for those emergencies, I think you should take up the new job. Hope this willhelp you to decide fast cause at times descisions taken at the right time are more important than anythng else

Do a control alt delate on the keyboard and get the windows task manager. Check out how many programs are running. End task the unwanted programs. Also what windows operating system it is? and how much hard disk memory do the system has?