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• Beware of Online Relationships posted (5 months) ago
  This message is to those women out there who read comments of a man and totally melt over it. Beware…

• Where is thep? posted (5 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Does anyone know where thep is or what happened to him? I really miss his input, his video postings…

• Hair Cut posted (6 months) ago
  A barber in Toronto refused to cut a lesbian woman’s hair in a men’s barber shop. “…

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IrAdler's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

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  [quote ~*Gee Ess Dee*~]Oh so this gentleman sends you the flowers even he is in war zone. I was wondering about how much nice person he is and Boom it’s The Sherlockian :D
  May God Bless You Both With Every Good Thing.
  Blessings ~
  - Dyal[/quote]
  
  Hi Dyal, you are a sweetheart too. Whoever sends those uplifting and beautiful pictures can only be a person with a big heart! Thank you for your kind wishes and I truly wish you to find someone wonderful too.
  
  - written 8 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Dyal, Dyal, Dyal

• (3 votes) I need serious help because I don’t want my relationship to end, but my (ex?
  

  There is always hope. What would happen if you’d told her what she means to you and that you truly loved her but no matter how painful it is, you respect her decision. Tell her if she lets you go out the door, she will lose her true love and she will let happiness go. Tell her you want her in your life and you regret all things you did to her, and that she is your whole life, that you loved her wholeheartedly. Tell her no matter what happens, you respect her decision to be left alone now, but if she ever needs you, you will be there for her. Tell her you will always love her. If she really loved you, she will realize very soon she wants you. There is always hope. Never give up.
  
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago – voted for by kspag, joelpietersen, Christop7

• (2 votes) Right now is probably the happiest I have been in a long time, seriously.
  

  I am really happy for you Puck. You deserve to be happy, to laugh and to meet real life people. I am also glad you are taking on the idea of volunteering, you have nothing to lose. And maybe now you will meet your special one maybe even in your hockey team ;-) who would encouraged and inspire you to reach the sky! You never know! Good luck!
  
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by TripleTT, Pink Freud

• (2 votes) Aww Man…
  

  Thanks for the invite red. Here is my two cents input:
  After all that trouble you went through to gain your current girlfriend back means nothing if you still hold strong feelings for a girl from the past. If this girl could manage to stir up such feelings that you doubt and question your current relationship then you really don’t have much feelings for the current girlfriend. Just a warning: you remember your highschool sweetheart as just that: a highschool sweetheart. After 14 years and 3 kids, she might not be anymore such a sweetheart. Also I noticed she is irresponsible too by saying she will give you the family you want. How does she know that for sure? Sounds very irresponsible and it also sounds like she is looking for someone to support her and her three kids. The girlfriend you currently have is careful in her decisions and more open, and not rushing into lifelong commitments that could end up being a mistake. She actually cared enough to think about you first, then her kids and then herself. This is not true to the highschool sweetheart. She looked at her needs first, then you and lastly her kids. Which woman would you trust your life with?
  
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by Dr. Ozy, CallingAllAngels

• (1 vote) Confused and in serious need of good relationship advice.
  

  You said you only grown resentful of the past decade, and you also said your children are 10 and under. I bet you all these “growing cold” started to happen when your wife became pregnant first and then continued with the other pregnancies. I bet you she quit her job because of the kids. That’s your clue. Don’t let it die out. Go to marriage counseling with your wife. Tell her you love her and want to save your marriage but the moment as it goes you don’t feel it will last. I know you both love each other but had not communicated well since the children came along. Go for it.
  
  - written 3 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by michele_lee_perry

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• Please help I want to ask my girlfriend about a guy she texts.
  

  Dr. Ozy is right but very naive too. If in a relationship one is secretive about something, there is no trust of the other isn’t it? I agree, don’t jump to conclusions but ignore it. Eventually you will find out the truth behind it in time. Then you will know the answer to your question.
  - written 1 day, 23 hours ago

• Please help I want to ask my girlfriend about a guy she texts.
  

  Tell her you will give her all the freedom she wants when she wants to text to this guy as you noticed she is being secretive about it. So because you respect her so much tell her to tell you when will she texts this guy, so you would leave her alone to give her privacy! This will give her a clue of being unfair with you.
  - written 3 days, 10 hours ago

• I’m worried I’ve pushed him too far.
  

  The reason for you being so worried is because of his attitude towards you. What exactly do you mean by that? How does he act towards you that you are so insecure?
  - written 3 days, 10 hours ago

• I was dating a guy, then he decides to break it off due to the distance of where we live.
  

  If you have to constantly guess what his motives are, better leave him. Or you could just ask him directly why he wants to get back with you all of a sudden. You already moved on.
  - written 1 week, 4 days ago

• 5 things that make you smile
  

  1. kindness
  2. no lies
  3. nature and cats
  4. good jokes
  5. great movies
  - written 1 week, 4 days ago

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