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• why do girls wear thong underwear?
  

  [quote Essex Boy]Because it’s the fashion, girls only do what celebrities do; they have no mind of their own and cannot were anything which celebrities think is trash.[/quote]
  
  Whuut?
  - written 4 weeks, 1 day ago

• Hotel California is the greatest ****ing album ever made!
  

  Good alum, I can’t say greatest since I have other favourites :p
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• Something I sometimes believe:
  

  Im so happy! She’s my favourite artist and I really admire Regina.
  
  
  
  (I’m not used to people liking things that I do! So thank youu! :))
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• I have no one to talk to.
  

  [quote sugarbucket24]Job concerns: Honey, the whole world is feeling that. I do think everyone has the job blues at the moment. My partner has been trying to get a job for ages now and it’s getting him down too. The best I can offer there is to hold on and remember there are so many other people who feel the same and are literally getting their lives torn apart from a lack of job/money.
  
  Feel invisible: But you’re not, you’re really not. When there are people who are ready to appreciate your beautiful, individual awesomeness, you’ll find them and you won’t want to isolate yourself from the world. There is always someone out there who will get you. Finding them is another matter but as I said, it won’t happen isolating yourself.
  
  Overwhelmed: By life, or other specifics? Life is extremely overwhelming, there’s hardly a moment to catch your breath whether it’s good or bad. It’s important to compartmentalise things so they don’t get to out of control. I’m a big freak-fan of writing lists to help me keep organised so my crazy life doesn’t get the better of me.
  
  Family Hurts: I’m sorry to hear that. Family should be there to support, inspire and comfort you but often they are the main source of pain in people’s lives. Look around this site and see how many people are depressed because their family puts them down or makes feel not good enough. The point is, that if someone puts you down, it’s because they were put down and hurt the same way and you will break the vicious cycle because you are different, you have come here and want to talk and that in itself sets you miles apart from anyone who is mean to you or hurts you.
  
  Want to Isolate: Of course you do. When you’re down the last thing you want to go out and do is party and mingle, but the thing is that this instinct, (intrinsic in animals when they’re hurt, funnily enough) is often damaging to the things you want that might actually help. Like making friends, getting noticed, etc. Be brave, you only live once and you’ll regret missed chances if you stay away from everything forever.
  
  Bury myself away from mean people: It’s the same as the above really. People can be spiteful and cruel when they want to be but it stems from some unhappiness in their lives too and if you let them ruin you, you’re handing them what they want. To hurt others until they stop hurting. You can live your life with your head held high because you’re not a bully, you don’t hurt others to soothe yourself.
  
  Keep talking, we’re always here.[/quote]
  
  Very beautiful and true :) its do hard to see anything passed what you feel now but it’s never the end. Things and people change, things will get better
  X
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• I have no one to talk to.
  

  If you want to tell us about it, we’re here. Sometimes it helps just to let it out
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

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