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[quote Anonymous]
It appears he has moved on… you have to too…. Leave the guy alone so he can find happiness… he didn’t find it with you first time round and it’s not likely to happen now.[/quote]

Alright, you need to be more compassionate. The poor girl had her heart broken, and the guy obviously sounds like a young dumba** because he fooled around with another girl. She’s not trying to sabatoge his new relationship, she just misses him. She misses they way things used to be.

I know exactly how you feel. Like exactly. I was the same situation you are in.
Here’s some advice: don’t talk to him until you’re completely over him. Don’t chase him because you’re cheapening yourself. My exboyfriend started dating this other girl too, but hey, who can blame him? Here’s a good song to listen to….
[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0bQRXgKowOQ]

*Hug* :)

Congrats!

You have a very good point, and I remember watching a show on this a while back…some mothers who couldn’t breastfeed would get milk from other mothers to give to their children, but there were some sort of negative results…I don’t exactly remember…haha and there are actually some women who breast feed their children until the kids are like 7 or 10.

If you like your new boyfriend, then just don’t hang around your ex so much. maybe in time it’ll hurt less when you think of ur ex. But I agree with Commander Ikari. Don’t be with this new boy if you still have feelings for your ex.

February 16, 2008
in
Boston

Because you don’t know what will happen. People are scared of being alone.

Happy Birthday! And I have a joke!
So this Native American boy goes into to his father’s tent and asks “Why is my brother’s name brown bear?”
and the father replies “Because your mother and I saw a brown bear in the forest while we were making love”
Then the boy asks “Why is my sister’s name running river?”
And the father replies “Because your mother and I were next to a river when we made love next to a river when we conceived your sister”
The boy is satisfied and he gets up to leave, but just then, his father says “Why do you ask broken rubber?”

[quote Anonymous]yeah i wondered that but we talked about it hes so open about everything i ask him and i really believe he ent with me for anything but just me :D yeh they do have a point but i cant even get them to give him one chance and meet him[/quote]

Boys are very good liars. Your parents only want to protect you. Why is meeting them so important?? It’s not like you two are planning on getting married or anything (right?)

Read this article:
http://www.freebeautytips.org/busines…

You know what? Romeo and Juliet didn’t wait…and look what happened there. I think your parents have a point. That is a fairly significant age difference; however, I know that each relationship is different. Just be careful. Sometimes you have to think about what a guy that’s 25 would want with a seventeen year old girl (*red flags should be going up in ur head*)

[quote I.Ponder]yes but if her boyfriend chooses her (libra twin) the girlfriend should know it wasn’t ment to be.[/quote]

Ok, you obviously don’t know what it’s like for your bf/gf to choose someone else over you while you two are still going out. I vote Anon waits.

[quote I.Ponder][quote SingerInPurple]Well I say wait for them to break up. Then say something like “whatever happened to up?”[/quote]

if i was her, i wouldn’t wait. due to the waiting you’ll probably feel more and more insecure i guess.[/quote]

That’s just wrong though, and plus, if I were her best friend’s girlfriend I would be really upset if someone stole my man. Remember, what goes around comes around.

[quote Genesis721]It doesn’t matter that you go with him because he was treated badly by your friend or not. What really matters is what you both feel for each other and that you have fun together.

Creating drama about the breakup event just gives your girlfriend some control. I mean that it will always come up that she texted him to quit him. Forget it, it doesn’t matter. If that’s the worse thing that happens to a person in their lifetime they can consider themselves darn lucky.

Just have fun and love will just happen all by itself. Good luck.[/quote]

Oh trust me, I’d never use that against her. I really don’t like drama. Thanks for the advice.