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Why do people who are the closest to us, sometimes break that bond of trust?
[just my impression] We are more easily able to forgive, our child, our spouse, or our closet of friend, because at some level, I think that they know, there is a possibility that they will be forgiven. Maybe because we may, more clearly understand their motives or because love will always trump what may be a minor infraction from their perspective. When love is taken for granted, our trust is also…

I believe if you try to be a trust worthy person and others feel that they can have trust in you, than they also deserve your trust. Most people will rise to a standard of trust worthiness around people who are trust worthy… I try hard to live up to that high standard and I expect that same high standard in return and when someone breaks that bond of trust than I am not always surprised but I am always prepared for it….we live in desperate times and no matter how hard we may try to live up to a higher standard of trust worthiness we still are capable of doing desperate things…..

Hay Tzu… everything is going to be amplified right now and it will never be easy to meet a potential girlfriend, when comparing these experiences to what you had with Brittany…remember to take it a little slower and not be so hard on yourself. Getting involved with another girl can be very rewarding and healthy, and from what I know of you, your not going to have to much of a problem finding potential girlfriends. Enjoy those beginning stages of meeting someone new, getting to know them a little bit at a time, and letting someone start to get to know you [your spirit]… it really is like stating over again.
Ps - Nights in Rodanthe [movie] is coming soon… it looks like a good movie to take a first-date too…

After the toughest year of my life with really nothing to look forward to, only things that I needed to accomplishes to make it through those dark and gloomy days … I rewarded myself with a new computer and friends from all over the world came poring into my life, and a few of those friends rewarded me with their loving spirit and their sunshine…You could say my reward was sunshine that now fills my days…
Oh… if you want a food reward… I sometimes reward myself with Shrimp Szechuan style with Lo mein noodles form best Chinese take-out… =)

Some of my favorite star trek quotes…

Mr. Spock : “In an insane society, the “sane” man will appear to be “insane”.

Capt. Kirk: A dream that became a reality and spread throughout the stars.

Capt. Kirk: You were actually enjoying that predicament back there. At times you seem quite human.
Spock : Captain, I hardly believe that insults are in your line as my commanding officer.

McCoy: I’m not a magician, Spock; just an old country doctor.
Spock : Yes. As I always suspected.

Capt. Kirk: Space, the final frontier. These are the voyages of the starship Enterprise. Its 5-year mission: to explore strange new worlds, to seek out new life and new civilizations, to boldly go where no man has gone before.

Human bonding rituals often involve a great deal of talking, and dancing, and crying.
-Worf to Data, on weddings, Star Trek: The Next Generation,

I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I’ll let you know.
-Captain Picard to Data, Star Trek: The Next Generation,

It is possible to commit no errors and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life.
-Captain Picard to Data, Star Trek: The Next Generation,

The truth is usually just an excuse for a lack of imagination.
-Garak, Star Trek: Deep Space Nine

“If I should go tomorrow
It would never be goodbye,
For I have left my heart with you,
So don’t you ever cry.
The love that’s deep within me,
Shall reach you from the stars,
You’ll feel it from the heavens,
And it will heal the scars.”

Here are some words of comfort that were given to me when my father was sick… my thoughts and prayers are with you…

Just a little song to cheer you up-a-bet…

Raindrops keep fallin’ on my head
And just like the guy whose feet are too big for his bed
Nothin’ seems to fit
Those raindrops are fallin’ on my head, they keep fallin’

So I just did me some talkin’ to the sun
And I said I didn’t like the way he got things done
Sleepin’ on the job
Those raindrops are fallin’ on my head, they keep fallin’

But there’s one thing I know
The blues they send to meet me won’t defeat me
It won’t be long till happiness steps up to greet me

Raindrops keep fallin’ on my head
But that doesn’t mean my eyes will soon be turnin’ red
Cryin’s not for me
‘Cause I’m never gonna stop the rain by complainin’
Because I’m free
Nothin’s worryin’ me

It won’t be long till happiness steps up to greet me

I feel that you have the riches and most compassionate Spirit here and yet that may not be able to pay the bills, I hope that if you keep your chin up, soon things will turn around for ha…I’ll be praying that things get better for you real soon…

Ireland-1 - for having the most friends list -181 … bigger than Brie’s -132

Amber eyes- for her humble nature…

Tzubake- for his passionate heart…

MJF - for his cool sense of humor…

Amber eyes- for her sweet wisdom…

MamaBear {Felicity}- for her healing words and spirit…

Brie - for her cheerleader passion…

Thanks anonymous , I wanted this to be anonymous too, I’m also like most of my life stuff private but hit the wrong button…I would like to hear your story why. I’ll add you to my friends list.