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• My wife tells me she does not feel the same about me as she once did.
  

  I am new to this, I have noticed my wife putting distance between me and her for about six months now. We have been happily married for 20 years this October. She is the only woman I have ever wanted and after all this time I am still in love with her. She says she still loves me but; has never got to experience independence and the ability to came and go as she pleases without having to tell anybody. I tried to talk to her tonight about possibly trying to rekindle the feelings she had for me when she was younger but it doesn’t sound like she is to optimistic. She is not planning to leave me right now or separate as we have two kids and she doesn’t want to put them through it but; I think if it wasn’t for that she would be wanting to separate. I don’t know what to do; I have become who I am today because of her, I know I am a much better person today in my job and life because of her. I am completely heart broken and don’t know where to turn. I am very close with her family and I don’t want that to be awkward either but over the years I have become a little more reclusive than I normally would be; because that is the type of person she is. I wish I could offer you some advise but I am feeling so lost right now it hurts to breathe. Good luck; I hope everything works out for you.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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