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• Yesterday I left my abusive boyfriend again and now I have a DCFS caseworker that has a case against him because of something he had done. posted (3 weeks) ago
  last night I stayed with my parents and they want me to move back with him because I am pregnant and…

• my ex just got arrested tonight, he was in someone’s car and they got pulled over, my ex had drugs in his pocket he had “green”. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  I want to know what is going to happen to him will he serve time?…

• how can I gain confidence in myself after I got out of this abusive relationsihp posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  can I gain confidence in myself after I got out of this abusive relationsihp…

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• Yesterday I left my abusive boyfriend again and now I have a DCFS caseworker that has a case against him because of something he had done.
  

  My parents just told me that I need to go back to him and wait to leave when I can get a job. They actually said that the DCFS worker is not going to find me a place to go, she did give me a list of places before but he threw it away. This morning my step mom gave me fourty dollars and told me that when I go back today (to HIS house) to turn my phone back on so she can get the kids next week for thanksgiving.
  
  The last time I left I went to a domestic violence shelter but only stayed for a week, I dont know if they will take me back, But I looked up places online.
  
  The part that pisses me off is, the reason why I left was because he stopped hitting me and started to whoop the kids and I told him he was taking it too far. I took pictures and showed my step mom the pictures and still told me that I needed to go back, but I have to show the caseworker.
  - written 3 weeks ago

• Yesterday I left my abusive boyfriend again and now I have a DCFS caseworker that has a case against him because of something he had done.
  

  Because I have been with him for so long, I had to stop talking to a lot of friends, so now I dont have anyone that I can move in with, if it was just me it would be easier, but I have a three year old and a two year old and one on the way, and I am 6 and 1/2 months pregnant
  - written 3 weeks ago

• Yesterday I left my abusive boyfriend again and now I have a DCFS caseworker that has a case against him because of something he had done.
  

  this is the fourth or fifth time I have left him and said I was leaving for good. Its almost like the little boy that cried wolf. My step mom was saying that when we are together we fight but when we are apart thats when things get lovey dovey.
  
  This whole situation makes me feel like the drug addict in the family. Even though I am not on drugs, being with him makes everybody question my motives when I do say I am leaving him.
  
  In the past four years, I have been slapped, punched, spit on, choked and slammed against the wall.
  - written 3 weeks ago

• Yesterday I left my abusive boyfriend again and now I have a DCFS caseworker that has a case against him because of something he had done.
  

  a year ago he gave me a black eye, since we have moved (which was about a month ago) he hasnt hit me but tried to and threatened to. He has smacked me about a month ago before we moved and thats how DCFS got involved. (He left the children by themselves to fight with me at a friends house) But yesterday I called the caseworker and she told me to stay where I am at but that was before my parents told me I needed to leave, so i have to call her back and explained what happened. But she did tell me before that she cant help me find a place to stay, I have to do that on my own if I decide to leave him.
  I want to leave, all the way down to my bone. I just want to leave him and be by myself. Yesterday he agreed that we needed to split but changed his mind when he dropped me off at my parents house. Today he is going to come back to pick me up
  - written 3 weeks ago

• should i tell him?
  

  if a guy truely wants to be with you a few birthmarks shouldnt make a difference, dont be afraid what is the worst that can happen. If you get to the point where you are about to have sex then explain it to them. In my last relationship I told him everything, i get boils in weird places, I have horrible feet and I am fat in the middle, he still loved me. we ended but it wasnt for my looks
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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