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• I feel lost. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  I’m in love with a guy here who is currently not speaking to me since I was a jerk to him and…

• College just started, Life starts again. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  I don’t know what to do. I party and go out on weekends to forget and stuff keeps happening.…

• My Sister Is Such A B*tch. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  She starts ranting about her boyfriend to his sister and me about how he’s talking to her bac…

• Life seems surreal. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  Really. I don’t even know what to say anymore because stuff is just odd right now. I foun…

• Well, I don’t know if you read the last post but this is a second part to it…. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  I don’t understand why some people think I have my act together. My Aunt was emailing me and…

• Birthdays, boys, college, and sisterly drama. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  What the flip? I’ll go in order of what I mentioned. Birthdays….. Ok, it was fun Sund…

• Not happy with the way my friends act at times. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  Seriously, I wish they would all forget about the bs between other friends I have and enjoy dinner …

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RandomxGirl08's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Messy House
  

  2 words: Garage Sale.
  
  Ok, what you want to definitely do is sort through your stuff. Thn you want to pick stuff you need and stuff you don’t need. For the stuff you don’t need, you can either keep it if you know you’ll need it in the future but the rest, put a box to sell.
  
  Seriously, messiness ain’t always cool and might as well make a quick buck while cleaning up right? If it’s getting as bad as you say it is, just try to encourage those you live with to do the same, help you out and try to clean also. Clean, sort out, and get rid of what you don’t need. You’ll be surprised how much more comfortable it feels to live in a spacier clean environment and how the rewards are a lot better. Try it, you won’t look back.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Mï†z¥-superMODel

• (1 vote) Well, really it is just that i feel isolated and sad.
  

  The world turn and everything goes on but it’s your job to chime in with the fuss. You need to get out there, talk to others, and be happy. You’re not a failure in life. why do you feel you can’t be like them?
  
  Also, it’s better to be unique than part of the herd. You stand out and get paid more attention to.
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by tilly

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• Should I tell my ex that I’m pregnant and leaning towards abortion?
  

  He does have a right to know. Are you completely sure you want an abortion? I’m asking this because later in life, most people who’ve had abortions end up feeling guilty and never get over it. That and there’s also psychological damage aside from mental. This is also part of your problem and you’re basically taking the easy way out instead of dealing with it. You can put it up for adoption if you truly feel the baby can ruin your future.
  
  If it’s the early stages of pregnancy, I think the fetus can get over the alcohol. I know ppl who were on drugs before realizing they were pregnant and the baby came out fine though it’s not always that way in all cases.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• hey, i have a question here.
  

  He likes you and I don’t think he’ll leave since he got upset you would even say that’s what you expected of him. Just see what happens and try and talk to him again. do you like him?
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• I feel lost.
  

  No I haven’t. He also doesn’t know I lost my job at the newspaper, got into 2 bicycle incidents, am now low on cash, have been pretty sick lately, am dealing with my best friend & her break up & her ex (who keeps coming to me for advice), didn’t get the job at JC Penney, and quite a few other things in less than a 2wk time span.
  
  You’re right, communication is the best but how? Like how do I tell him I want to talk to him and such. I don’t know what to do and I’ve wanted to have that conversation for so long but every time I’ve had the moment, I no longer know what to say or something interrupts us.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• I feel lost.
  

  To Som: Yes I do have a question. Have you seen anyone for psychological help? Those are not normal answers, even as a joke. If you have nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself and don’t reply.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• I feel lost.
  

  The thing with the old dude is that we’ve been on and off since 2006. idk how to even explain our relationship because we’ve been through a lot and it’s so complicated. He sort of said goodbye because he thinks I only want to go out and stay out late when he is more used to staying in….. He has no idea the reason I wanted to get out that night so badly was to forget the news I found out that morning, my Dad has been re-diagnosed cancer, and that on a regular basis, I would prefer staying in to watch a movie with popcorn & cuddle on the couch. He has no idea how messed up my life has gotten since the email he sent me or anything. I feel like I need him in my life because I love him but sometimes it’s just hard. After so much, you start thinking the worst and it’s gotten to the point where I get upset because I think he no longer cares about me even though I know he does. We’ve swept a lot of stuff under the carpet and that’s affected me a lot. It’s like, what if I move back to LA now and he comes back into my life later? I want to be full frontal and say now or never but I can’t do it. I’m scared and I don’t want to lose him. I haven’t apologized because of my fear of rejection.
  
  The new guy, idk. We’re just talking right now and if I was living in LA, I would continue to talk to him and stuff but I live in TX now, if we were to pursue whatever, it’d be long distance and I don’t like that. He seems like someone I’f be really into though.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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