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• Hi, My name is Maggie, And I would like to have a little input from others. posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I have been living with a man for almost 10 years. I have always been in - love with his brother Ton…

• I’m a 49 year old woman. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  And a year and a hafe, ago I started dating a co-worker. He was going through a bad divorce at the t…

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• hiya how do u get over a broken hart
  

  It’s so hard, when you are in-love. In addition, it’s not so easy just to go and find someone new. We call them crying our hearts out, hoping that; they will realize that they have made a big mistake. That they are still in-love with us and want us back. Because they just can’t live with out us. However, it doesn’t happen that way, only in the movies. Men are wired differently than woman. One of the worse things you can do is try to get ahold of them. My love left me 5 months ago and married the woman he left me for. And I just couldn’t leave him along. Witch made things worse. He was on my mind 24/7. But you know what? As time goes’s by you still get up each day. And you’ll breath! And you live, and as each day go’s buy, the pain gets a little less intense,and you realize you will think about that person less and less each day. You need to talk to your friends. One of the worse things you can do is let that person know that you are all broken up over them. No one want’s to feel that they are being replaced.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• I’m a 49 year old woman.
  

  Well sense my last post. Joe the man I love so much, has moved in with the other woman. He had gotten hurt, thrown off a horse. He had surgery, last Friday. In addition, moved in with her. He tells others that she is his friend. But tells one of my good friends that he believes it will work between them. It still hurts me, and he knows it has to. I feel that he is just using this person. He told my friend, that he told his live in that he couldn’t assist her with any thing, but cooking and cleaning. However, he gets’s sick time from where we work. I guess the best thing is, he will be off work for six months. So I don’t have to see him, with her!
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• How can you get over a broken heart when you must see that other person everyday?
  

  Do you work with him? Why do you see him every day? I am in-love with a man I have to work with. We were dating almost Two years. He told every one, we worked with how much he was in-love with me. However, 4 months ago he left me, and now last Friday, he moved in with another woman. He tells’s every one that they are friends. But I know he tell’s her that he loves’s her. I do know how you feel. It hurts like hell. Do you want him back?
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• My marriage has been over for so long that my husband
  

  I to had gotten married at a very young age. I had just turned 14, he was 17. I stayed with my husband until our youngest was 13, and I just couldn’t take it any more. He had gotten very controlling, and mentally abusive over the years. However, I just didn’t have the guts to leave. I used the kids as my excuse to stay, because I was so scared. I finally left him a few years ago. I have a very good friend at work that let me stay with them, until I could get myself together. My x-husband is bi-poler, that’s why he is so abusive. Don’t wait until you children are grown up. Your only kidding you self, if you assume your children don’t know what is going on. All you are doing is hiding behind your children. After I left, my children have told me sense, that they were so glade I finally moved out. You can call the welfare department and ask if they have a program to assist woman with getting a divorce. They should! I was put on a 6 month waiting list, and only had to pay Two hundred dollars. Due to the fact, that I was working a full time job. I know it’s the hardest thing to do, but once it’s over, you will relies that it was worth it. Don’t wait to long. Because before you know it, you’ll be in your 40’s, then 50’s and so forth. You are still young. However, you only get one life to live, and girl life will, and is passing you by. And so far there has been one excuse after another.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• I don’t love her anymore.
  

  I fell the same way as Kayla. You must not have been in love with her in the first place. Because I to don’t understand how you can say you are in love with someone, then the next not be.
  No matter how you do it, it’s going to hurt her. Unless she isn’t in love with you either. She might be hoping that the both of you will just drift apart. What I’m trying to say is maybe she feels the same as you do.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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