You know when I read the topic line of your post, I thought you meant how many marbles do you have left mentally. You know how they say…you’ve lost your marbles? Because if we use it in that sense, then I really do only have 540 left. lol. I’ve lost most of them
- written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Ireland-1
He shouldn’t be expecting this, right. But he is a teenager. He’s not a perv though, just a normal kid with raging hormones.
Anyway, don’t do it because he ‘’expects'’ you to. You don’t owe anybody but yourself. You’re not obligated to have sex with him. He can go and pull his own meat. He’ll get over it.
And by you telling him no is not gonna make you look stupid. It actually makes you smart, regardless of what he says or thinks. PLEASE PLEASE PLEAE take heed to this advice we’ve given you and tell him NO. Let us know what happens. But don’t do it.
- written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Anubis
Ames..that was some good info. For some it’s easier to do than others. And your counseler made a good point. We go through alot of things, because we allow ourselves to dwell on the negative stuff, when all we have to do is fight. She was abused though, so I can see how it can be hard for her. I’ve never been abused either, but I can see how she’d have flashbacks. Kind of like an abused child. It sticks.
But either way it goes love, were her for you. So let it out if need be until you get to your counselor. We don’t want you commiting suicide, because then you’re dead, and he wins. He will have conquered in breaking you down to a point of no return, and you don’t want to give him that. Let that help you with your fight. If you keep thinking of how he would win if you harmed yourself, it would fuel up some anger and get the fight in you. Keep in mind how you don’t want him to win. Keep in mind how he wanted to keep you down. Keep in mind how you don’t want him to have control and that if you hurt yourself you give him that control, or satisfaction. Use those memories to your advantage. He’s gonna get his eventually, and you want to be around to see it.
- written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Puck You
Try craigslist.com. Honestly, with the things you’re asking for, someone would probably help you. What kind of school supplies do you need? How old are you? Male or female? I don’t have much money, but for what you are asking for, sounds legit. I can probably do some school supplies depending on what it is. Also, though do try Craigslist. You may even find some help on here. Answer my questions though.
- written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by lorissha.cobur
All I can say is pray about it. I get like that sometimes, and it’s kind of scary because you don’t know what it is. Sometimes you just feel like that for no reason and no matter what you do, it does not help. You can even be around beautiful things or positive people and you’re laughing on the outside, but inside, you still feel wierd and disconnected. I’m always feeling disconnected. And you can do all the stuff suggested, but sometimes like you said, that’s only good for as long as your doing it. You go back to feeling the exact same way once it’s done. Cry a little and let it out. I did that one time because I was feeling really crazy. Really sad and didn’t know why. I started crying and could not stop. After I finally stopped, the next day, I felt better. Crying is sometimes soul cleansing, so maybe you need a good cry.
you can go to your doc and see what he says. He may try and put you on something, and it doesn’t hurt to try it. Id you don’t like it, you can always stop. So I hope you feel better and if you need to talk you can email me @ tyonnna @ yahoo. com
Feel better. it takes time, but it can happen.
- written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by tilly
Yeah, you’re a cutie. But to be cool is to be yourself. And to not care what others think about you. Confident shows and when you have confidence(not arrogance), people are drawn to you. People can sense when a person is unhappy or bitter, not saying you are, but it shows and people tend to stay away from people like that. It’s a downer, so stay positve, love yourseld and own your sexiness. - written 1 week, 1 day ago
Yeah it happens. Can’t control things when there’s chemistry there. I’ve been there before. Instant chemistry. And this was a guy I met in class..and didn’t even know him for 8 hours. lol. It happens babe. Nothing wrong with that. Just take it slow. I know you feel like givin him some ***, but don’t. Just see where it goes. But it’s ok. - written 8 months ago
And her being drunk is not an excuse. If that’s how she is, she needs to quit drinking. It would be one thing if she was drunk and made out with some random guy, but she actually DROVE TO HIS HOUSE, which means he was on her mind, and she new what she was doing. Don’t excuse the alcohol. - written 10 months, 4 weeks ago