Tnicolle's shoutbox - Help.com

Hope my merry christmas wishes make it to you, happy holidays!

I miss you on this site :(
Why did you leave?
Come back please! :) *hugs*

Fine thanks. Work sucks, but there ya go. Sorry for delay in answering, I’m in the middle of making dinner as well! Multi tasking. My mum just arroved from Spain yesterday (she lives there) so we have her for a couple of weeks which is nice. Enjoy your peace and quiet! :)

Hey girl, how are you? Things ok?

Hiya, nice to hear from you. Thanks for the email address, I have sent you a ‘test’ email to see if I have it right, and it means you will have mine as well.

I started work again today, so back to the old grindstone. I will probably only get to be here for a bit some evenings (our time, it’s 7.45pm now) or on the weekends.

Hope things are well with you. :)

Hey babe, I keep missing you on here. I hope you are ok. I start work again tomorrow after the summer, so I can’t be here as much as I would like to, but I will try to catch you as often as I can. Take care *hugs* Michelle

I just want to thank you for all the replies on my anonimous rant post.

I’m glad to hear someone say something positive about him. I suggest that you shout one of the mods and give your opinion (Ken, Mas1s, Anthrax, Sully, Mitzy), since I’m just another member like you. Thanks for speaking up for your friend.

Hi Tnicolle. Last night was a bit mad huh?

Unfortunately for Cap’n, he can be very straight talking and he pulls no punches, which as you can imagine upsets some people. He can also be his own worst enemy. It’s like he wants to be banned sometimes. Unbeknownst to me, whilst he was helping me in shouts, he was also upsetting someone else in a post (I’m now led to believe, and boy I can believe it! haha).

Not knowing this, I got annoyed because when he was banned I didn’t know what else he was up to, to me he was just in the middle of helping me. And I was told by the mod who shut him down that he “was JUST a troll” with no other explanation.

I raw red, because whilst he is hotheaded and argumentative and many other things (I couldn’t even begin to deny that! :)) he is not ‘just a troll’, he is also a good helper who is genuinely there for people who need it. And that was the point I was trying to make.

One of the things that the Cap’n gets anoyed at is all the posts from the teenagers which suck up so much time. I know every one is entitled to socialise here and have fun (we did it last night after all) but they take it too far. And they do it all the time “Reply here if your’re Cool, vote for me” Let’s play Knights and Castles”, it just gets too much. Which is what I meant in the “Cool” post when I said ‘who is watching the shop?’. (And you agreed, thanks for that.)

They drag everyone in and keep it going for hours and no one gets helped. Most people if they are having fun in a post, keep it to the few people who are there. They don’t take up the whole site. So I agree with him on this one, I feel that the teenagers are taking over here. And I’m certainly not a teenager!

What I do know is that you are an asset to this site. I would never dream of telling you what to do, but friendly advice? Don’t let the teenagers take over the shop and don’t take things too seriously here, that can be the worst thing. It’s something I am guilty of.

You are really smart, and this site is all the better for it. Take care. Bye. :)

I had negative people around me as well and really wanted positive ones. But this site is helping me a great deal. And you did help me everyone who gives me advice on here helps me whether they know it or not.

I think im starting to figure out this thing called life… a little lol

Thank you :)

Thank you. Im really glad i enjoyed it as well :). I even made some new friends who are more like me, which was one of my goals btw. So im happy and cant wait to find out what the future holds for me

Idk what her problem is. I just notice her hateration gets worse when hes around.

Im soooo happy now though because i went to church this morning!! I swear that service was made just for me. It was about how we have to go through trials and tribulations to accomplish our goals/dreams. And thats exactly what my life is right now.

So im not even studding her any more. She was just a stepping stone for me to grow even more as a person. So im actually glad it happened

No problem, I always enjoy it when you join a post I’m on. :)

By the wayu are a real asset here, I’m so glad you showed up, you have a great sense of humour, but also know when to do serious helping. Articulate and smart, you go girl! :)

I knew you would enjoy that post ;) lol

Hi. Just added you as a friend. There’s a little icon next to your name when you post something on a topic. Sorry I didn’t reply earlier, been offline for a couple of days

Yeah, he sure is. Go to Account Amin at the top and select it. You will get a drop list. Got to ‘Friends’ and in there you can organise your friends, add them or delete, whatever.

Hiya, it was a luagh last night. I have added you to my friends list, I hope you don’t mind.

Thanks! Had no idea you were going through your own thing, really sorry to hear that. You always seem to be on here giving good advice, and just generally being friendly and great, so I hope you take time just for yourself sometimes; gonna have to start getting worried about you otherwise!

Hi! Yeah, I’m feeling a little better than when I posted a few days back thanks, now need to start trying to get my life back on track; one step at a time though. I’m still trying to work out how to use the site properly, hence why my reply is a bit late! Hope things are good with you

Oh, also I added you to my friends list, if you dont mind.

Oh thanks your cool to, sorry I just got your shout, my computer is really messing up, but really thanks :D

Yeah. I have done the same thing before. Sent myself a shoutout. HeHeHe. Thanks for being so friendly, I could hug you! :o)

We will. lol. Yah. I am super friendly. I love people. And I love making people feel better. I don’t think no one should be sad, depressed or alone. I know how it feels to no have anyone, so if I can save someone else from that, be it a stranger or family, I’m all for it. TTYL!

Hi. I just added you on yahoo messenger. my screen name is QTMaZi09 on there. You are very friendly. I hope we can talk! :o)

Well, I told them. I left the letter for them and they found it when they were out of town. They came back the next day. We talked and it actually went pretty well. The only thing that is not going well right now is my situation at school. i made a REALLY BIG MESS of everything! Right now it is not helping me because i am really hormonal and super moody and depressed and i am not getting done the stuff that i need to be getting done. shrugs shoulders. I dunno. Why am I so messed up? I also have no one to talk to about ANYTHING!

Yeah. I am trying to write the letter to them now. We will see if I get it done before they go out of town tomorrow morning. Thanks for your help/advice/comments.

cool, I added you :D

:) thank you!
p.s. do you mind if I friend you?

I never got a chance to properly thank you for all of the advice you’ve given me so, thank you! :D