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• (1 vote) I seriously feel trapped and controlled.
  

  I’m really sorry that you’re in this situation. As your best friend I’m here to help whenever you need me you know that. I know what your parents are like by now and they make your life **** for no reason. I myself hate the way they treat your sister differently…she has a white boyfriend too but she’s allowed to see him ny your mum. Fair enough your dad doesn’t know but it’s still unfair. You’ve been so strong for these past few months while you’ve been tackling with your depression. I’m so proud of you and wish you could see this as the final stretch. But I don’t live in your house and I can’t imagine what it’s like from day to day. Life is hard at times but you have stuck through the hard parts up to now. Please stick in it for yourself and for justice that you deserve happiness and a better life than you have now. I’m here for you if you need me, Lizzie x
  
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Opeth

• (1 vote) I really need to know what I should do.
  

  Hmm this is suspicious. Maybe he does think that you don’t trust him with hr. Otherwise he would tell you he’s going to see her. I think you guys have trust issues with each other (no offense) but you definitely need to ask him about it and just be honest and say you heard what he said on the phone. Let him know that you don’t think he’s cheating but that you don’t understand why he lied. Why would he hide it if he knew you trusted him?
  
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by kmichelle

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• I seriously feel trapped and controlled.
  

  I’m really sorry that you’re in this situation. As your best friend I’m here to help whenever you need me you know that. I know what your parents are like by now and they make your life **** for no reason. I myself hate the way they treat your sister differently…she has a white boyfriend too but she’s allowed to see him ny your mum. Fair enough your dad doesn’t know but it’s still unfair. You’ve been so strong for these past few months while you’ve been tackling with your depression. I’m so proud of you and wish you could see this as the final stretch. But I don’t live in your house and I can’t imagine what it’s like from day to day. Life is hard at times but you have stuck through the hard parts up to now. Please stick in it for yourself and for justice that you deserve happiness and a better life than you have now. I’m here for you if you need me, Lizzie x
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• im gettign a really hardtime at school and hav just
  

  I know exactly what you’re feeling. I was in the same situation myself at school for something else. This one lad must have told all the “popular” kids my secret and they took the piss for about 4 years. It made my life hell every day knowing that I had to face all the bullpoop just for loving someone. If I were you I would speak to someone you can trust and explain. There’s nothing wrong with going out with someone younger but it sounds to me as if this guy gets a kick from making you feel upset, which is how my bullies were too. Please speak to someone even if it’s just to get it off your chest. Good Luck :D
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• I think my relationship is in trouble and I wish it wasnt.
  

  Try and sit him down and calmly explain to him what you’re feeling. It’s all you can do for the momnet. Tell him you’re not comfy with him seeing other girls if that’s the truth. You need to be honest with the guy and he should be honest with you. Let me know how it goes if you do decide to talk to him. Good luck :D And if he gets even more distant maybe you should think about trying to look for someone else who will treat you with more respect.
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• I’ve been only going out with this girl for four
  

  Stay friends with her for a while and try and help her out with this jobs thing. Maybe she can’t handle a relationship now but she will need someone to be there for her for the time being. It does seem like a funny reason to end a relationship though, if I’m to be honest.
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• I really need to know what I should do.
  

  Hmm this is suspicious. Maybe he does think that you don’t trust him with hr. Otherwise he would tell you he’s going to see her. I think you guys have trust issues with each other (no offense) but you definitely need to ask him about it and just be honest and say you heard what he said on the phone. Let him know that you don’t think he’s cheating but that you don’t understand why he lied. Why would he hide it if he knew you trusted him?
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

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