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• I love you. posted (12 months) ago
  I’m writing this here cause I know it’s somewhere you’ll never look. I would love …

• Any female love their female teacher? posted (12 months) ago
  I’ve been in the position myself and still trying to work out if I still am but would just li…

• Hi. posted (12 months) ago
  I’m female and trying to work out if I still love my teacher. I fell for her in year 8 (not in…

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releaseme25's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I seriously feel trapped and controlled.
  

  I’m really sorry that you’re in this situation. As your best friend I’m here to help whenever you need me you know that. I know what your parents are like by now and they make your life **** for no reason. I myself hate the way they treat your sister differently…she has a white boyfriend too but she’s allowed to see him ny your mum. Fair enough your dad doesn’t know but it’s still unfair. You’ve been so strong for these past few months while you’ve been tackling with your depression. I’m so proud of you and wish you could see this as the final stretch. But I don’t live in your house and I can’t imagine what it’s like from day to day. Life is hard at times but you have stuck through the hard parts up to now. Please stick in it for yourself and for justice that you deserve happiness and a better life than you have now. I’m here for you if you need me, Lizzie x
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by Opeth

• (1 vote) I really need to know what I should do.
  

  Hmm this is suspicious. Maybe he does think that you don’t trust him with hr. Otherwise he would tell you he’s going to see her. I think you guys have trust issues with each other (no offense) but you definitely need to ask him about it and just be honest and say you heard what he said on the phone. Let him know that you don’t think he’s cheating but that you don’t understand why he lied. Why would he hide it if he knew you trusted him?
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by kmichelle

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• I AM OBSESSED WITH MY TEACHER(SAME GENDER)
  

  Hey msdklov sorry I’ve not replied sooner. I can’t see what you’ve typed there it says a few letters and symbols and then email removed. Are you on Facebook? I could send you a message on there with my email address in. Once my teacher found out with the first letter I think she wanted to like avoid it first. She didn’t mention it at all but obviously I was embarrassed as hell. Then I wrote her another one saying I wanted to arrange a meeting and talk about it and stuff and this one she had to report, being a teacher and all. Another teacher took me out of class and down to her office and basically said I had to stop what I was doing and she offered some counselling. I refused this cause at the time I didn’t like talking about this too much. From then on I think she tried to avoid being alone. I respected this to an extent but I still like ditched my friends at break just so I could sit near to where she had to stand on duty. Looking back I was extremely obsessed and it really helps once you’ve left and you can start to look at it in a different light. I’m not saying it’ll happen straight away cause I still think of my teacher now and again but not to the extent I used to. If you search for Lizzie Green (Manchester network)on Facebook you’ll find me and I’ll happily add you. By the way, what did you mean with your comment “I’m so dead now!!!?”
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• I AM OBSESSED WITH MY TEACHER(SAME GENDER)
  

  msdklov, I was 12 when I fell for my teacher in exactly the same way as you. I wrote letters to her and told her I loved her as a mother and stuff and it totally backfired. The world sucks like that…teachers can’t afford to have these kinds of relationships. It absolutely sucks if you’re in the position you and I were in but once you’ve left school (I know it’s a while away), that’s when you’ll truly start to get over her. I’m 19 now, I still think about my teacher every now and again and feel impulses to go and see her and stuff but I think it’s best I still stay away. Feel free to add me if you want to talk about this anymore. Let’s say I was pretty obsessive too at your age. I’d agree with the others comments about deleting the Facebook account though. All the best
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• I keep dreaming about this teacher I used to love.
  

  Yeah it does. Whenever I’ve asked people previously on here they say it’s infatuation…it kind of is with the little things I used to do but the feeling as a whole is a lot different I’d say. You’ve nailed it there :p Ta
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• I keep dreaming about this teacher I used to love.
  

  Yeah I understand that completely. I questioned my sexuality quite a lot. I had boyfriends but they weren’t really like long term relationships or anything and I didn’t care for them half as much as I did for her. Now I’ve actually found a guy I do care for which is a huge reassurance. He knows about my past and luckily hasn’t rejected me at all for it. I think he finds it hard to understand cause he hasn’t been through it himself but he accepts that it’s part of me. One final question before I have to go, would you say it’s love having thought about this teacher in that way since year 8 (say 6/7 years)?
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• I keep dreaming about this teacher I used to love.
  

  They mustn’t have a very good life then to keep doing that. So would you say you’re over your teacher now? And can I ask the same question as you did before? Did you fancy her at all?
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

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