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• Help. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  I don’t know what the next step in my life is. I’m 20. When I was younger, I was happy a…

• Hurt by my family and best friends… posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  I am a college senior, graduating a year early with a high GPA, who recently has gone through many…

• My guilty pleasure… posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  is that I secretly indulge in going to psychics. I keep it on the down low because I can’t r…

• Anybody know of a good, affordable photography camera for beginners? posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  I’d like to start taking pictures and learning some techniques. I am in college, with a full…

• how do you stop procrastinating something? posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  I need to write a manuscript to be sent away…and it’s not happening right now. Any sug…

• How can I help animals and nature if I don’t necessarily want to be a vet or a researcher? posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  What I really love is writing. But I also like animals and being around them. I want to know that …

• what is it like to be a vet? posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
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• Hurt by my family and best friends…
  

  I will with my parents’ neighbor. She is a great room mate. But I am so far from my two good friends. And I have to live under conditions that they are not experiencing right now. I moved alot when over the past three years, so, they always just expected me to drive to my old hometown, where they live, to hang out.
  I get annoyed with this. I try to suggest them coming here, but they really won’t. I feel angry at them. I can’t even really relate to them too much. I find that my immediate and future challenges are far more than what they are challenged with.
  
  I also feel that they are focused too much on guys. One of them hops from one loser, sex-crazed bf to another. She calls me up complaining about being pressured into sex. I call her up complaining that I feel I might not get into a master’s degree program. We both try to counsel each other, but I can’t help but feel my focuses are far more mature and demanding than hers. It makes me feel extra lonely when all she cares about is her bf.
  
  The other friend is highly unmotivating. She has a problem with talking to people over the phone. She has minimal confidence, almost to a dysfunctional degree. I find it hard to talk to her, because she would never even attempt the tasks I have to do on a daily basis, just to fulfill my obligations to school and work. She is the one who really would not come to me. She hates driving, among almost every other thing that involves her taking action.
  
  I bet I sound like a real mean person right now, but what I’m saying is the truth. I feel like I have no one to relate to.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• My guilty pleasure…
  

  The woman sucked. She told me my friend was a manipulative girl who was never nice just to be nice, but always had a motive behind her kindness, which was utterly untrue. And her other friends agreed with me. Silly psychic, don’t you know lies are for lawyers? lol. that’s the end of that.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• My guilty pleasure…
  

  Thanks guys. I thought you’d tell me I’m just cracked or narcissistic. But we all have our moments of wanting speculation and light-hearted metaphysical insight into our lives.
  
  I’ll tell you how it goes. It’s tomorrow. I’m excited and nervous. Not to mention I usually show my emotions on my face, so I’m gonna try my hardest not to give anything away.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• I am a 25 year old medical assistant that works 40+ hours a week and goes to school for 20 hours a week at night.
  

  do you love your work?
  
  If you don’t, trust in yourself that you can find a job that you love that will make a better life for you. We can’t do it all.
  
  Being a father is the most important job right now. See your kids, be with them. And pray to get through this tough time.
  
  My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• i seriously need to quit smoking.
  

  wow, I knew a girl named Gab once. I hope you aren’t her. Gab Stern? I hope that’s not you. Anyway, join a support group, get some patches and gum, and just buckle down, girl, or guy…gab is kinda a unisex name.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

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