You’re attracted to his appearance, attitude, etc etc. Blame evolution for telling you “good idea.” conquer that and choose not to pursue it. It’ll be hard but… :(
- written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by erica.ba
[quote iwana]I’d repeat everything randomnessma said, but add that you should probably break contact with her completely, to the extent you can. Getting over someone is MUCH harder if you continue to see them or talk to them regularly.[/quote]
Completely agree with you - if you continue to see them and act like everything is, to some extent, “O.K.”, then it’ll eat away at you like a nasty sickness. - written 1 year, 2 months ago
Don’t be harsh on yourself - not wasting our time and you certainly aren’t wasting yours.
First, she led you on….that was, to be honest, a pretty bitchy thing to do. However , I think she’s made it abundantly clear that she is not and will not be ‘interested’ in you. Dose of honesty: You had a crush on the girl and she didn’t feel the same about you. She’s a manipulative creature who feeds of the attention of good guys like you; then rejects you without feeling a modicum of remorse.
Second, she sounds like a nuisance, to say the least. Some flimsy, fickle college **** who will hook up with any moderately attractive guy given the surroundings of alcohol and social “pressure.”
My advice: forget about her. Reasons? That nagging little part of your brain that still wants to be with her is about as logical as a mongoose dipped in acid. This “relationship” will never amount to anything. Nor will it progress further than an awkward friendship. She’s not right for ya friend. - written 1 year, 2 months ago