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• I owe $3,300 to a school and it’s due in 18 days.
  

  Ummm have you tried speaking to the school? I’m sure if you could arrange something with them they could be ok about it, and pay off so much every month until your debt has cleared. it may take some time but at least they are gettin paid. I hope this helps!
  - written 4 years, 10 months ago

• i have done the worst thing ever, i had an affair with
  

  I agree with Santana. You should end it with him ASAP!!! I ain’t judging you or anything, but imagine how you would feel if it was the other way around? like if you found out your sister was cheating with your husband whom you love dearly! It’s not nice and it would break your heart right? well i would advise that you just cut contact with him slowly so not to draw more attention to yourself, tell him it’s over! as the saying goes, men come and go, but your sister is there for life!!!
  Do your sister and yourself a favour, end it NOW!!!
  - written 4 years, 11 months ago

• Hello, I’m 23 years old and after a relationship gone wrong I had to move back in with my parents because of my financial situation.
  

  I fully agree with you mate, honestly, i kinda got carried away as my parents where the exact same. trust me i got alot worse and i just hate seeing other people goin through what i went through. I’ve moved to a different country and with a better partner now.
  Nope life sux :(
  - written 4 years, 11 months ago

• Hello, I’m 23 years old and after a relationship gone wrong I had to move back in with my parents because of my financial situation.
  

  I understand what you are sayong, but do you think it is fair that her parents are trying to control who she is with? the reason why i am giving her the advise i did is because i was in a similar situation. Yes her parents maybe only looking out for her best interests, but is it actually fair what they are doing to her? So what if he is not educated. He is a hard worker. The young girl said they tried this with her last relationship. They can’t keep doing this to her, she has to learn for herself that life is full of ups and downs, it seems to me like they are trying to wrap cotton wool around her and keep her safe. I just feel that they need to give her room to breathe thats all. I really do apologise if i have caused any offence by writing this reply, but that’s the way it is. Be a little more independent with yourself hun.
  - written 4 years, 11 months ago

• Hello, I’m 23 years old and after a relationship gone wrong I had to move back in with my parents because of my financial situation.
  

  At the end of the day it is you who needs to make that decision. you are 23 and in control of your own life. It sounds like your parents only want what is best for you, but they have to realise you are a grown woman now, not a child anymore. That you should fall in love and be with who you want when you want, and not with their consent, they cannot control you. Have a speak with your parents and tell them that you really love this man money isn’t everything. I’m sure if he is a hard worker then he will make it to the top if he keeps working for it. You don’t need a doctorate, masters PHd or diploma in life to know what love is and have a wonderful relationship. The only thing you need is common knowledge and sense to know what is right from wrong. I’m sure they will understand your concerns when you explain to them how you really feel about this young man, try to have a civil conversation, as i know getting through to your parents is hard in some ways.
  
  Good luck :) and lets us know how you get on :)
  
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  - written 4 years, 11 months ago

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