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• Well I had a female office friend whom I started feeling for but she never felt the same for me. posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  She came close, she extended friendship, she started caring for me as a friend, she asked me to meet…

• My sister is a acute depression patient. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  Some doctors also say that its Schizophrenia. Is it really not curable. She is sometimes very depres…

• Well I feel so lonely these days. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  Since past about 12-13 months I am really struggling to keep myself happy. My relationship with the …

• Well this girl in office really likes the other guy who flirts naughty with her. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  I flirt with her as well and seems she is intrested in both of us. She flirts back with both of us. …

• Hi Buddy, I am from India and posting here to calm down the intense emotional stress I am going through. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  Thanks to Internet. My story starts here. I work in a MNC and my crush is my colleague. I am sorry …

• I have a female office colleague whom I love. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  She is a muslim and is getting married to a muslim guy in 2 months time. When we are in office, she …

• Hi, posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  Nice to know today abt this forum where I can get some advise and help. Well my concern is related t…

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• Love a girl but I have no idea what she thinks…Long but it’s all important
  

  Be honest with all your relations. Don’t be scared of rejections. Be a man you carry balls dude… take her somewhere where its only you and her and tell her you love her and you care a lot for her. You don’t know how and where all this is heading to but you would be glad if she told you how she feels about you/this relationship. Tell her don’t let this conversation affect the friendship. If she feels the same and speaks out, you are in. If she says no, just accept it and stay cool and still remain friends with her. If she says she does not know and needs time, allow her that time coz you love her. She might start feeling same way.
  
  Remember, don’t let this conversation between u and her affect anything. Be her friend no matter what. And tell her the same before you start talks.
  - written 1 week, 4 days ago

• Love a girl but I have no idea what she thinks…Long but it’s all important
  

  Exactly the same here man. We feel superb when both of us are around and I help her out with everything(more that anyone would ever do to anyone) and she tries to return the favor back by caring for me on occasions. She shares everything with me exactly the same way as your girl. Your last post sounds very positive. Things seem to be going the right way for you. Just hang in there and may be she is yours soon. Don’t expect too much. Just be there. All the best.
  - written 1 week, 4 days ago

• Love a girl but I have no idea what she thinks…Long but it’s all important
  

  Bro… I am going through almost similar life….
  
  This emotional swing, the ups and the lows will drain u buddy. I live all by myself and don’t feel she ever cares how I am managing my loneliness. No phone calls no messages. But when I am around her I do everything she would want and she likes me a lot as a person. I help her all the time at work. I have told her how I feel but she never expressed what’s in her mind.
  
  My suggestion, just be a friend who is there when she needs you. Remember if and when she needs you. Otherwise just move on with your life bro. No point waiting. Don’t get hurt. Just prepare urself she is not meant for you and move on.
  - written 1 week, 5 days ago

• Yet again, boy trouble.
  

  You should wait for a few more days. Be his good friend. Someone he can trust is not talking about him when he is not there. If you like him, you should respect him and try to earn his respect as well. Only then he will start liking you/show that he likes you. Be caring. Be loving and show him that u actually mean it when u ask him how he has been. Go Slow and you will start to find more about him…that will decide whether u actually like him 10 months later as well. If yes, go and tell him u feel for him.
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• i cant concentrate!
  

  Same case here…. Online schooling does get u behind. A group which goes out together to a campus to learn works out much better. Individually I always found myself falling behind. I feel the above suggestions will do good. Otherwise go for a incampus, regular schooling.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

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