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I completely understand your problem. You know, I think that is is quite normal that your girl is reacting like that. If something bad happens to you, you’ll always be scared to get the same thing again, and that is what she is all about.
I think you are a real good person, and I understand that you are feeling kind of f***ed up, but that is normal. You know what the thing about love is?? You can never tell a person how much you love her. You can only show it. You can prove it. And you prove it by sticking to that person for life. Trough happyness and sorrow. Make her every tear yours. Make your every joy hers.
You know, I think you are in a good position right now. You have the girl of your dream. She lost herself a little. But the most important thing is that you are there for her. Show her that not every guy is the same. It is pretty f***ed up when some kind of guy screws it for someone that realy cares.
I think that you will always stick with her, and don’t worry she will grow closer to you as soon as she realizes that not every guy is an a******.
Sorry about my rude language, but I realy hope all the best for you, cause you are a real lover…
Thanks for making the world worth living for others….
Regards….
- written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by manylockz
I know exacly how you feel. When we kids start growing up, the things that our parents say and do to us, seem a little, I don’t know…. Not good.
I’m having thet problem too, but it’s just the way that you look at it. If you look at the bad side, it will look bad, and if you look at the good side, it will be good.
Always remember that your parents were the ones that brought you to this life, without them you wouldn’t even exist. So everything you had, have and will ever have, is thanks to them.
When my parents say something that I don’t like, I always tell them like:
I dont like the things you say, I tell them why I dont like it, I also tell them that I understand the good in it, and I thank them for what they said, because you learned something from them.
Think of this for instance:
You are a small kid, and you steal things. That is not good, and your parents scold you. You won’t like it and sometime again you will steal, and you will get a beating from your parants. You won’t like that either. But if they don’t scold and beat you, you’ll become a thief.
The point in this is, everything thay your parents say and do to you, is to make you stronger, don’t worry if you don’t see it, someday you will…
And what to say to your parents? I think that is obvious:
Thank your mother for being so caring for you. (The thing that you call annoying, was always caring, trust me). Tell her that you are sorry for all the wrongs that you have done.
Tell your father that you are sorry fot all the times that you butted heads. Thanks him for being there for you and understand you.
Thank them both for taking care for you and making you a grown up, so you can take car of youself now. Tell them that they are the best parents in the world. Tell them how proud you are to be their kid. Give them a very very strong hug…..
Some advise from me: (As a friend??)
Please forget all the things that went wrong and try to remember the good things that they did for you. Please don’t abandon them or something like that. Give them a place in your life and in your heart..Partents don’t need much from their kids, just some attention. And be there always for them. Don’t end up a day thinking: “I wish I spent more time with my parents.”
“Live is only once, so make the most of it, make others happy, and it will reflect back to you. Don’t do anything, that will make you regret for the rest of your life.”