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No need to feel guilty about eating at all! All living things eat. You could try to find a happy medium instead. I eat meat, but I do not apporve of the unethical treatment of animals. So when I purchase the meat products I eat, i purchase those that support what I consider to be ethical and humane, like free range, or other options. Often local meats are the best. There is a pig farm in my area where the farmer lets his pigs to do whatever they want and live as pigs, with full lives and then he uses everything he can instead of wasting it. I was able to meet him and he really values the lives and the sacrifice of the situation. I guess it depends on your definition of ethical. I consider the modern “mechinization” of food to be unethical, but I do not blame early and premodern humans for hunting to survive. I support and meat meat that comes from a more reverant, old school view.

Sometimes the tightness of clothes affects reactions, but then again you never know what will happen when you go out. I would just try to stay safe, but still dress like your style.

It is normal to fee like that, but you also have to keep it in perspective. he liked you before because of the person you are, so keep being that person.

[quote Chameleon]Why does it suck? You have two option that can both have glorious outcomes. Think positive girl![/quote]

I agree with this. No matter what happens, things will be okay, you just have to remember that you can’t control him. you only control you.

[quote dream_er]it just hurts so much. how do i stop being so depressed?[/quote]
don’t isolate yourself. do stuff with your friends and family.

[quote Chameleon][quote dream_er]it just hurts so much. how do i stop being so depressed?[/quote]You buck up. [B] You either decide you’re going to win him back with your happy sunshiney attitude or move on and find someone that can love you the way you already are. [/B][/quote]

being sad will start a cycle. your have to think of yourself before him…

I think there is a “true love” but that it isn’t a magicly perfect relationship. Like any relationship, one with a true love will require work. And you may not know or realize they are your true loe right away. They could be under your nose, or you and someone grow into it.