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• How does a person stop this pattern where they fall in love with people they can’t have a relationship with? posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  Every time someone gets close to me, i ache for them intimately…either male or female. and it…

• Lately, for the past several days, my friend and I have been wrestling. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  Not normal conversational wrestling…but playing around wrestling. We would laugh and sling wo…

• My friend is going through some complicated issues with her family. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  This week, she was feeling really lousy, so she didn’t go to some of her classes and just stay…

• I don’t know what to do. posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  Last night, i was talking to one of my friends and i just had so much swimming around in my head t…

• How to deal with things we cannot change? posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  Sometimes, i don’t like being black because so many things are geared toward other races that…

• How do you know if you’re legitimately “crazy” or have a disorder? posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  My mood varies a good bit throughout the day. I constantly break down and cry and my heart aches de…

• What is this? posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  What am i experiencing…is it attraction or something else… I’m a girl…and I have this thin…

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• (1 vote) Michael Jackson!
  

  itunes.
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by Jeff

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• so i think im a homosexual.
  

  It really depends on your age and if you’re sure you are a homosexual. When you’re 13 or 14, your boy is going through a lot of changes. You’re going to feel things that are strange and exciting…and awkward.
  
  If you’re a young adult….18 or older, you might have a idea…if you’ve experienced things with the same gender. Although…i’ve heard that some just “know”.
  
  Either way, relax and give this A LOT of thought. It shouldn’t be awkward around your family. If it’s a burden for you not to tell them, ask yourself why. Maybe you should just keep it to your self until you leave your household.
  
  This is confusing and i kinda know how you feel…but i don’t think I’m gay. I think i just seem to go toward the same gender because…that’s all i know (i’ve never been with the same sex, but i’ve only been around the same gender)…maybe that’s you? I don’t know.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• so i think im a homosexual.
  

  How old are you?
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• I have deep shame about sex.
  

  Have you ever been raped? Some rape victims have this feeling like you have…If you have been, you should seek counseling.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• How does a person stop this pattern where they fall in love with people they can’t have a relationship with?
  

  Okay. It’s hurting! but I’ll survive…thanks everyone.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• How does a person stop this pattern where they fall in love with people they can’t have a relationship with?
  

  Oh, believe me Mauri, i hardly ever tell her i love her. I’m constantly telling her NOT to care about me. Things just get confusing because she sends mixed signals…walking into her room with a bath robe when i’m in there…touching my face and taunting me other times…and i’ve tried not to allow my heart to get caught up in her mind games, but i’ve failed.
  
  I just have to understand that becuase she’s a girl and i’m a girl too…things get messy and confusing. It confuses me becuase i don’t know exactly where she’s coming from…if she’s being flirtatous or just playing around.
  
  I’ll just keep telling myself that she’s just playing around. It makes more sense anyway.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

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