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• I cut myself for the first time. posted (6 months, 3 weeks) ago
  And I was actually surprised when it felt good. I was crying and freaking out, but it calmed me down…

• It is very hard for me to do this, because I just feel like dying right now.. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  I’m sitting at my computer wondering why I’m even doing this… But, if this can hel…

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• (1 vote) i need some advice real quick(kind of complicated).
  

  I don’t know you personally, so I can’t tell you to resort to drastic changes, like changing your occupation. If it comes down to it, working to afford the basic necessities of living is your first priority. So, if there is no other job available, don’t feel obligated to quit your job. It is possible to resolve the issue without hurting anyone or getting yourself fired in the process. If you love her, you should do what is best for her, not simply what you both want at the same time. Remain as friends if being lovers is impossible for you. Besides, 6 months isn’t a terribly long time to know her.
  
  The thing others aren’t taking into consideration is the fact that you want the same type of attention. I can’t blame you for it, everyone wants to feel loved and wanted. But you have to understand that in some cases the bad outweighs the good. If you are meant to be with her, it will work out. Patience is required in this situation. You also should know that she is probably just as confused about your relationship as you are. Communication is the key. Then you need to decide what to do with it.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Anubis

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• gay rights, gay marriage… interview?
  

  It was cool talking with you! I’m gonna friend ya in case you’ve got any more ideas you want to bounce off me later.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• gay rights, gay marriage… interview?
  

  SO at the beginning of the survey you should ask questions like
  
  What grade are you in?
  
  What class did you receive the survey in?
  
  Are you male or female?
  
  These questions will help you collect more info. C: Well, I’m peacing out for tonight. It’s almost four in the morning for me. ^_^ I’m sleepy!!!!
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• gay rights, gay marriage… interview?
  

  Whether it makes you a target or not, you’re probably doing the right thing. Try interviewing your fellow students anonymously.
  
  Hand out the survey you just wrote (with any other good questions you can think of because right now I can’t think of any) to other teachers and politely ask them to hand it out to their students. After the teacher collects them, you can pick them up and get a wide variety of points of view from your peers. From there you could even make a graph stating how many out of the # of people you interviewed thought that your school was doing enough. For this idea to work, you need to randomly select classes with honors students, regular-level students, and remedial students. There is often a difference in opinion due to a difference in knowledge. And make sure you hit up different grades (ages) of kids. Also include classes that people with specific interests might take, like art/choir/gym/computer sciences….etc.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• This is one of those days I wish I’d never gotten up.
  

  Hah! I’m out for tonight. I stay up WAY too late sometimes.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• This is one of those days I wish I’d never gotten up.
  

  Hmm… Just start with something new, then. Something new and small. Like, if you want something sweet… Bake yourself a **** cake. And then you can feel a bit accomplished and invite your friends over to have some.
  
  If you feel like your time is being wasted, then why not try some self improvements like getting caught up in an exercise routine. Go out and buy yourself a new nail polish color. Uhh… Let’s see, I’m trying to think of little stuff I do when I can’t seem to get my whole act together.
  
  Clean your room.
  
  Put away some clothes.
  
  Go through your house with a big, long duster and remove random cobwebs.
  
  Open the windows in your house.
  
  Tan outside or in a bed.
  
  Bother the hell out of someone and then walk away when they finally want to fight. (okay, not a good idea all the time ^_^)
  
  Hell, take some time to moisturize body. (That sound really weird, but it stands)
  
  These are little things I do that help me get motivated to tackle bigger ****. I avoid doing things by doing other things for a little while, you know? And none of these activities except the last are unproductive. They make you feel good about yourself in other ways.
  
  (If I blow off studying for the day, I’ll be sure to brush my teeth at least twice and wash my face.) There’s a lot of things we know we should be doing, but it’s okay to skip out on a few of them every now and then. Just don’t make it a habit. XD
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

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