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• i’ve never understood myself, i get times when my mood just drops away and i can focus on nothing but the crap in my life, it results in me being posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  never understood myself, i get times when my mood just drops away and i can focus on nothing but th…

• My laptop restarts every 30 seconds, i dont know what i’ve done, obviously messed where i shouldnt, i went into F2 and footered about trying to find posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  laptop restarts every 30 seconds, i dont know what i’ve done, obviously messed where i should…

• Same girl different day…… posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  Yes im still hooked on her, for so long i’ve longed for a way of forgeting her, even new relat…

• Lost in life, Hey does anyone else feel like they’ve lost direction in they’re life? posted (2 years, 10 months) ago
  im 27, in a lot of debt, but have good friends and family, i never settle in a job and feel that im…

• Can you recreate attraction? posted (3 years) ago
  Ok, i’ve learnt a huge lesson, i opened up way too much and talked about feelings and thought…

• Getting over an ex and moving on. posted (3 years) ago
  Would it be best to get rid of all the letters, cards, cd’s, clothes, etc etc etc that have an…

• How consistant is love? posted (3 years) ago
  Every couple have they’re arguments and little things that annoy them, but do you still feel …

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• I kinda need help with uh my head i guess itd be.
  

  jay thats a really tough 1, i hope it works out in the end,
  
  i cant offer a complete solution for your problem, its only an opinion, and i really am not sure about how it will go, but if it was me i’d leave it to time. You cant stop her from talking to other guys, you have to have some trust there in her or you’ll end up pushing her away, if its really you she wants to be with then she wont stray,
  so i know its difficult but try to just freeze your mind when shes talking to someone else and then pick up where you left off from the last time you seen her, its not just trust, respect her (and others) and the trust will build again, but it needs time,
  
  hope that makes sence,
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• I have a problem, which i thought you might be able to help me with.
  

  i dont think its stupid, its obviously got you well stressed out, but you need to know that your parents are only worried about your scores because they obviously want you to do well in life after school, and its a lot easier with a good job and qualifications,
  
  but they must love you to do that and are not going to want you to be stressed out to the point you are now, so tell them, and explain how your feeling, in the grand scope of things its not an evil thing you’ve done, when you look back on your life in years to come, you probably wont even remember this incident, and if you do your bound to have a good laugh about how worked up you got,
  
  they might not be happy initialy, but thats short term, let it blow over, long term its not going to change your life, only you have the power to do that ;) good luck
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• plz answer
  

  its only natural to worry about loved 1’s, but if he has no ill health and is happy then why not be happy for him,
  
  many people go through this life miserable about they’re weight/health/looks, and many take great care of themselves only to die of a heart attack young, plenty of people die in gyms…
  
  But ok, i know your worried, so maybe if you spent more time with him and enjoyed yourselves you wouldnt feel as bad, plus you could also throw in a few activitys to do together, and if that meant a long walk from the car park to the ball game or something, or a few flights of stairs you can sneak in while going somewhere, then maybe a little exersize is better than none ;)
  
  But most of all you really should enjoy your time now, all the good health in the world wont stop the enevitable, and a long life thats boring and dull isnt worth having, so let him eat what he wants, and have some yourself, lol,
  
  id give anything now to be able to go back and spend more time with my dad, i have good memorys of him happy and proud, but i also remember harsh things i said about him and to him, and i hate myself for those now, if i knew how little time i had left things would have been so much different,
  
  Go enjoy yourselves, good luck :)
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• i’ve never understood myself, i get times when
  

  thanks candp, those are very good reasons i can relate too, i just let myself get scared too easily i suppose about things that i either cant change or are too scare to leap for, what good is a dream if i dont chase it :)
  
  Thanks again, i honestly am feeling better now, i just need to grab it while i can and make the best use of the feeling for my goals, (if that makes sence, lol)
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half about a month ago.
  

  im really the last person to give relationship advice, but really you cant (and dont deserve to) be with anyone who would beat you like that, plus is that really an enviroment that you want your daughter to be growing up in?
  
  like i said my love life is pretty screwed up so i shouldnt be giving advice, but just to let you know we’re thinking of you and hope you and your daughter are ok,
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

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