lucky7_luvs_ASHTON:]'s shoutbox - Help.com

are you still there?

Hey, hope you doing good… Take care!

Hey lucky! How are you? Whats up?

If you say so =)

How did the whole moving in with a friend go?

Lol, well I can’t really say that Im the best looking =) so thats got to be it lol

Hey Lucky. I just wanted to see how you are doing..I here on help if ya wana talk. send me shouts..ill be back on later too.
xxx

Mmhmm?

personally I blame my looks :S

There is nothing you can do, boys just generally only like me as a friend,

I have only seriously liked someone once in my life, which is not surprising considering my age (16) and the fact that I have to be extremely close to someone before I can fancy them, and I have liked him for several years since I was 13, this guy is one of my best and closest friends, he knows how i feel about him and he has for a while, but it doesnt stop us being extremely close. If I get scared or freaked out he will hold my hand (like in the cinema ) and when I was ill he came to my house to watch a movie he knew I loved. However even though he gives me loads of signs I know he doesn’t like me, because I am his best mate and he tells me who he fancies.

At least though, you have someone who you love and who loves you in return, that is after all the greatest thing you will ever have.

ughh what?

I wouldn’t have a kid with him till you are living together, and go with your heart, but be steeled in case it is broken, I don’t want you hurt.

Hun, I think he is playing you around.
and you wanna see bad luck with guys? Look at my post on Just another rant about guys, that how rubbish my luck is!

leave him and find someone better

=] Thanks hun

and if I were you then I would give him an ultimatum, “if you want to date me again, then break up with her by [_DATE_]”

I have done nothing worth mentioning, I am nowhere near as good as those people on help you see who have posts dedicated to them by those they have helped,

and Id give him another try then, but proceed with caution with him, for me ok?

Good luck hunni {hugs}

and be careful, I have never met him, but he is setting off a couple of warning signals, I would find someone else, unless you really, REALLY trust him

Well try and sort something round, talk to your friend about it, then invite your friend and friends parent round for dinner, sit down with your aunt and the other two and talk it through, see if it is a possibility.

and have you heard him say to this other girl that he loves you?

Would your friends parents be ok with it? Because if they would be, I think it is legal to live with them 6 nights a week and sleep at your aunties 1 night a week, because techinically you are still living with a guardian

Do you have a friend that you could move in with? Where you would have your own room?

I can try =] I’ll help you with whatever I can?

I help everyone I can, and everyone deserves a chance. Noone gave me a chance, not for a long time, so I give my all into helping others, I help everyone from people with family problems, selfharmers, suicidAl people, people who are in love, I help every one I can.

I’m looking for other options :)

Just posting here cos my post thing doesn’t seem to want to load - but I’m glad you’re being a little more optomistic now! And like I said - give these things time and patience

http://www.legalaidocba.org/documents…

go to the second page, there is some information.

I have some bad news, you have to be at least 16 to become emancipated.

Then I think you have to tell her to get it done legally, wait til I have the info needed.

Do you live with your aunt?

Ok, Ill go and look it up.

and I am glad I have managed to get through to you!

It depends on what country you’re in,

Would you like me to look into it for you?

I think you should try it, I wish you luck with it {hugs}

If you are emancipated then you are legally an adult and can live with who you want, but why dont you move in with your cousin anyway? it is legal to live with another family member.

if I were you then I would wait, but if you believe that being emancipated is the best choice then I say go for it.

Don’t start smoking or drinking, but if you believe that it will make you feel a little better then why don’t you swear/yell into a pillow, it helps deal with stress, think about it in the sense that once you are 16 you can legally go and live with a friend.

I trust you, and my parents think I am an awful example, when in fact most people believe me to be very mature. How are you losing your mind?

Is there anything else?

Ok, take a deep breath, and tell me everything that has brought you to the point where you feel this is your only option.

Believe me, killing yourself isn’t going to do anything, I have two failed attempts, and now I have never been this happy, believe me when I say that your sunlight is just around the corner.

Hello, and really, I will be here for you.

I have to go now.

gotcha, ummm….what happened with you and alex again?? sorry if you already told me, i forget…..

cALIFORNIA u?

ok…..so do you want to be home to talk to him?? you could call him back….

purple by FAR but my room is green……..

o, pretty good i guess, i have wrestling camp later so thats good, how about you???

uumm…what do you mean by holding up??

14 as well!
what is you fav color???

yah not much, thats kind of why im online…….