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• I don’t know if I’m in love with my best friend, but my friends keep pushing it, and now he doesn’t want to be around me. posted (6 years, 6 months) ago
  As if things weren’t awkward before… What should I do??…

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• my parents are both having affairs, my mom knows that my dad is seeing another woman but he doesnt know about her other man.
  

  I definitely agree with candp, it doesn’t seem fair that your mother wants to tell you all about her own issues, and have you share that weight with her, and I think that if you and your mother are as close as you say, than you should call her on it. If it’s really troubling you, it’s really not a good thing for you to be her confidant.
  
  As for your dad, when I found out my dad was cheating on my mom, I made sure I knew what was going on, and than I told him so. Basically he lied his ass off, and all I could do or say without jeopardizing that relationship was to just let it go. It worked for me, but I don’t know, your situation is a little different. But if you need anybody to talk to, I’m always around.
  - written 6 years, 4 months ago

• what to do when u are in love with someone and he loves u back but u have a feeling cheating on u with ur best friend.
  

  Yeah, probably the best thing to do is ask. If you snoop around and he’s not cheating, he’ll probably get really pissed that you didn’t trust him. Asking your friend would probably be a good bet too, you’ll probably get a straighter answer from her than from him.
  
  Also, consider if you really want to know if he’s cheating or not. Obviously, you’re worth more than that, but sometimes finding that stuff out causes more heartache than it prevents. If you can’t deal with the doubt, then you probably need to ask.
  - written 6 years, 5 months ago

• I’m in a love triangle, so I need help, obviously.
  

  Make nice with your best friend. Talk to him, be friends again, try and mend your friendship, and try to at least get back to where you were.
  
  In the mean time, you should probably break it off with your boyfriend. Like you said, if you don’t love him, it’s probably got to end. Obviously, don’t tell him your breaking up with him b/c you love your best friend.
  
  Then tell your friend how you feel, but like Thargor said, do it after you leave your boyfriend. You pretty much need to wait a little while otherwise your current boyfriend is going to feel pretty hurt.
  - written 6 years, 5 months ago

• why should high school students be able to drive a
  

  It provides a lot of necessary transportation for after school and before school, which actually is a big part of high school. Getting around, doing different things.
  - written 6 years, 5 months ago

• ok i have this friend and she goes out with my x-boyfriend
  

  You can’t exactly ask her to break up with him, since basically you had your chance with him, and it’s her turn now. You can tell her, but it might just make her really angry. The worst thing to do would be to tell him, because not only does it put him in an awkward position, but you would be totally backstabbing your friend. You may just have to wait it out and hope they break up. In the mean time, I’d suggest trying to find another guy, may an unattached one.
  - written 6 years, 6 months ago

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