i honestly beleive he doesnt remember that night because he did lose his bike and he woke up in the woods with a black eye and a fat lip not knowing what had happened…what gets me is how he can just forget bout me when he is drunk, he found out from his mate that he had kissed her and said he had to tell me because he htes lying to me and feels horrible about it, he told me to cheat on him because he cant forgive himself…obviously i am not going to that, but im going to try and forgive him. BUT if it ever happens again he will never see me again i dont usually put up with s.h.i.t like this!!!! - written 4 years, 10 months ago
What did you do in the end?
my boyfriend of 11months was out drinkin friday n he cante remember a fing from tht night, me n him went on a day trip saterday and had the best day imaginable. then tuesday hes speakin to some people and they both tell him he kissed another girl friday while he was drunk…he swears he dont remember a thing and told me bout it and said he feels really bad about it and understands if i never wanted to talk to him agen, he said it was a stupid mistake that will never happen again. I told he if he can promise me that then we can work through this, we would be ok…
i saw him yesterday n he couldnt look at me, touch me or hardly talk to me, i told him i wanted things to be ok and he said he still feels horrible about it but i told him we can put it behind us. but i still feel hurt, i have cried every day since i found out…how can i kiss him again knowing he kissed another girl, how can i trust him if he goes out drinking again?
please tell me what you did and how it turned out thanx x - written 4 years, 10 months ago