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• (1 vote) I have a boyfriend of almost a year and half and we say we love each other.
  

  I believe marriage at 18 is too early.
  
  “i know that he is not the type of guy i wanna marry.”
  Why be with him?
  
  “But i do not want to hurt him, and im scared to be alone.”
  
  (My previous question answered)
  Thats selfish.
  You are hurting him already, he just doesnt know it yet.
  In a way you are making him live a lie in the relationship.
  Be honest with him.
  Dont you have a conscience?
  
  Scared to be alone?
  Being dependant on someone = not good.
  Youre just 18, you still have a whole life and experiences ahead of you.
  Live your life, establish yourself first, and then be in a relationship. Find someone thats on the same page as you.
  
  Thats my opinion.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by chunkymove

• (1 vote) Could it be my siblings and my fault?
  

  Have you heard what they are fighting about?
  Its not your fault unless you directly disobeyed and did something to piss them off.
  Ask your mom, see if you can meet resolving whatever they are asking you and your siblings to do (if thats the case).
  
  On the other hand I agree with most of the replies, I dont think they fight because of you guys, he most likely has issues inside he doesnt want to face or deal with, and decides to lash out on other things.
  Mom and step dad have their own issues, issues you do not know about, you and your siblings happen to be effected by them (ya’ll are caught up “in the line of fire” sort of speak) because you live w/them.
  Thats why I can say its not your fault.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by soc0ut

• (1 vote) I was with my ex fiance 3 years!
  

  That guy is one manipulating sick abusive ignorant SOB to say the least.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by nothx

• (1 vote) I’m 26 years old, and going through a divorce.
  

  [quote ambrutellow]I think you are vulnerable and should be careful. I’m guessing he hasn’t even filed for divorce. He is a married man and you should stay away from him. Just because his marriage is failing does not mean he has the right to cheat. if he wants to end that relationship he should end it then take up with some one else. And you should have more respect for yourself and find a man who will respect you and not use you to cheat on his wife. Headed for divorce is not divorced.[/quote]
  
  I also agree.
  
  I think you should back off.
  Wait ’til he’s available, let him resolve his own situation.
  You won’t be able to have anything a healthy normal relationship should have if he’s still married and living with his wife. You are asking for more hurt.
  Isn’t he cheating on his wife, or am I wrong?
  You need your own space to deal with your divorce, heal and clear your mind.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by ricangrl1

• (1 vote) so I know i havent been on in a long time and this is kinda a bad story to start off with but i could use some help.
  

  IMO,
  First, start off by not being so “available”,
  Second, learn to love yourself and stop looking for approval from guys that see you as a “piece of meat”.
  Third, dont act so easy, it doesn’t look good. Give yourself some respect.
  
  4th:
  What are you looking for in a relationship?
  
  5th:
  I think you are looking to “feel wanted” in the wrong way.
  
  6th:
  QUOTE:
  “why else would he choose her over me?”
  
  Maybe because she is not like you?
  
  
  Think about it.
  I truly hope you feel better.
  Good luck!
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by Sans

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• Need help with this problem?
  

  What the first anon reply said.
  
  =)
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• I’m afraid of being manipulated, help me?
  

  Anon, try not to get too emotionally attached unless she gets attached too. Im thinking shes kinda young, but I believe she said “she doesnt think true love exists” for the simple stupid reason of her judging mankind (relationshipwise) based on the stupidity of one dude (her ex!) who broke her heart. In other words, she gave too much to someone who simply was too immature to appreciate correctly. Thats a possibility.
  She’ll keep believeing that until the day she meets someone who she will really fall in love with.
  
  
  
  My advice…Just take it easy, vent, relax, act accordingly, and base your opinions on her actions (more than on her her words) and remember not to be needy nor act clingy.
  =)
  
  Take care!
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• what do guys secretly love about girls?
  

  thank you scarlett, and believe me…I would have not guessed that one.
  =)
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• what do guys secretly love about girls?
  

  [quote ɦɕąŧƕƩƦ]it’s actually song lyrics
  “cause you’re everywhere to me, when i close my eyes it’s you i see”[/quote]
  
  =O
  Oh…
  
  What song? shout me the ytube link!
  
  =)
  
  
  [quote ɦɕąŧƕƩƦ]what do you partly disagree on? just curious. :D[/quote]
  
  eh…partly on what you just said!
  
  =P
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• what do guys secretly love about girls?
  

  [quote ɦɕąŧƕƩƦ]depends. but basically 22 and up. lol
  some guys mature earlier.
  a lot of guys are really mature by 18.
  buuut most guys are crazy party guys until they’re 22ish.[/quote]
  
  
  hmmm…interesting you say that ’cause I actually partly disagree.
  
  =D
  
  Heather…I saw your profile right just now, pretty creative….what does it say on the second line of your second pic? are both lines (up and bottom) supposed to say one thing?
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

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