Joey_PR's shoutbox - Help.com

h3y no me eh metido en casi dos anos pero no an cambiado las cosas ya tengo y 19 y claro algunas cosas an cambiado pero todavia tengo un dolor en el corazon espero ke me recuerdes

hey sweetie, you officially off of help now?

Seasons greetings and happy holidays

hey sweetie, how have u been?
Joey, it seems like this irl is throwing herself at you. I dont see why you should be sad if you want her in return. She’s telling you she likes you too much, and is practically asking you to show her your deeper feelings. Though I dont know much, she seems to really like you and just wants you to show some initiative.
Dont forget sweetie, you really are a good catch. and I actualy began dating someone. I dont know if I already told u it didnt work out with the guy I went on a couple dates with. It’s okay, we didn’t even kiss, and I just wasn’t attracted to him. then I met this guy over a months ago and we’ve been hooking up since but he’s asked me to be exclusive. I dont know. I think it’s a bit of a rush but I do like him and he treates me very well. and I’m also moving out during the summer with my sister. :)
aha well that’s my update. Hope ur doing well, and tell me how things are working out with this girl (hopefully for the best).
ciao sweetie

hey sweetie!
aha no problem hun :) I’m glad you felt you could vent to me sweetie. You know, everybody makes mistakes. You made one little slip, don’t beat yourself up over it hun. You either have deap feelings for her, which you desire to continue developing, or you don’t hun. This is something out of your control and trying to analyse to won’t make a difference. You just gotta figure out whether you truely want to be with her or not, and if you don’t, then what can you do? you just gotta move on. Don’t pressure and push your emotions, just believe you know yourself well enough to know what you gotta do.
Sweetie you can’t stress yourself over just being the “ex”. Truth is, it’s hard to be anything but. But that shouldn’t stop you from realising that you are a good guy, you know it. You know any girl wouold be lucky to be in a relationship with you. You said yourself you had yourself together. As long as you know you’re a good catch, who cares what anybody else thinks?
anyways I’ve been well sweetie, same old same old. Going out with the girls tmrw to grab a few drinks, wish you could come with. All the best and hope you feel better!

hey sweetie, haven’t heard from you in a while. Just dropping by to say Hi and best wishes!

Haha, I know, I know, drugs are bad.
Don’t worry about the late responses, I barely log on here during the school year…
And yes! I’m still singing!

Something is actually bothering me…well my ex just started dating this other girl, and I know it’s really lame, but I don’t think I’m over him. What if I never get over him?! oh man. this sucks.

I was all like, :O! A KID AND AN EX FIANCE? NO THANKS.

“Im glad you are the way you are. Pretty damn intelligent for your age.”
Well thank you. :P I really appreciate that.
My friend, thought it would be funny to throw my binder at my face. -.- And it has 4 notebooks, a book that’s about an inch or so thick, a small binder, and 7 folders and some other stuff in it. It hit me right in the jaw. -.- I was going to like, attack him, but it wasn’t worth it. And he tried playing it off as he was “VERY DEPRESSED D:” in his note. I’m like, seriously?

I guess it’s good that you’re busy. Haha.
I have homework. And I don’t like it.
o__o I’m almost behind on a bit because I have so much of it to do.

aha why would I ever get pissed over something like that?
And I’m doing very well. Just trying to uncomplicate the things that are complicated and having a good time.
mickey’s a pretty good dog if you keep him in his boundries but he’s very energetic and likes to push his limits if he can (ex. eating out of the trash, distroying clothing etc.)
and aha yeah, well sometimes I can get a little irresponsible. I am trying to moderate my drinking alot more and not make such bad decisions. Mostly just analysing the situation I’m getting myself into with more detail.
That’s great to hear you’ve met someone. How did you meet? how’s the connection between you two? etc. etc. anyways I hope it works out for the best. and my personal life is alright. Dating, uhmm…I think I just need to enjoy being single. I’ve met someone too. But I dont know if I’m willing to jump into a relationship. He’s a really nice, respectful guy. I just don’t know whether I really want to be tied down at the moment. I mean relationships can bring me alot of stress and I dont know if I’m willing to trade that in for the freedom I have now. But I’ll just keep going out with him and see how I feel as I get to know him more. Take things slow and just make good, thoughful desicions. anyways sweetie I hope all is well for you and hope to talk to you soon sweetie.

The senior kid doesn’t like me any more. :D!
Woohoo!

But some other older kid does.
He’s only about 17 though.
o_o And he was engaged and has a kid.
Very awkward.
And I don’t like him either.

And some other random kid I’ve only met once likes me. He’s a friend of my friends.

Why is it all the creepy kids like me? o.O
I will never understand.

I hope you’re doing well.
(:
High school is pretty fun.
I make new friends every now and then and make a few really good new ones.
My grades are pretty good.
Still getting my math grade to about a B/c but I have a tutor.
And my math teacher, was my tutors boss. Weird, huh?

Lol.

Hey Joey!
I’m doing pretty well actually. I’m fitting in quite well at my new school, but I miss my old friends and the way things used to be. I guess you really don’t know what you got till it’s gone :P
Besides busy, how’ve you been?

pues que ya tienes otro correo maske este

hey sweetie! sorry about the delay in my response again hun, just been a bit busy lately.
My dog is a beagle, named Mickey.
Aha no I probably lost it on the street or it got stolen at the bar. And honostly, bringing you along to help keep an eye on me wouldn’t be such a bad idea. God knows I couldn’t go wrong with another set of eyes looking after me.
I’m feeling alright. It’s definitly been a hectic and dramatic month but I’m doing very well thanks. How are you sweetie? Hope all is well. Can’t wait to hear all about hun :) and I hope your apartment came out nicely.

lol, nicely put Joey. I hope your life is awesome too!

hey sweetie!
sorry if I haven’t replied in a while I haven’t been on help.com very much.
And no I have a dog.
Artificial nails (when you get them done at a salon) can last a few months (2-3 months)of your real nail. But the glue is really strong so I’m not going get artificial nails bc they can mess up your real nail.
Yes booze makes me feel more open. I can talk more, do things I wouldn’t usually do sober. But I went out drinking with some friends last night and lost my wallet. Which sucks since I rescently lost my phone too. I really do need to keep a better eye out for my personal items when I’m drinking.
And my hair is pretty manageable. I straighten it alot though. But it only takes less then 10 minutes.
Anyways I’m doing well. Tired from last night and pretty frustrated I keep loosing my things but I’m okay. How are you hun? How’s life and etc.? Hope all is well and take care.

lol, I didn’t change my voice, but now I’m totally going to cause it’ll be funny. xD

People are allowed to be different, but you have to be pushed to your absolute worst. I think it also depends on your environment.

I don’t want to be in my 20’s already, but you know how younger people want to be older and old people wanna be young? Yeah I feel like that sometimes.

lmfao, no old men have been hitting on me lately xD But there was this guy that came to fix the windows at my place, and he was like “so where u from?” and I told him, and then he was like talking to me for a couple mins, and I think he thought I was older because later he asked my Dad if I was Daddy’s sister x.x

Things are actually really good with me. I just transfered, and yesterday was my 2nd day, and it was really great. It kinda feels like camp. Weird.

Peace.

Lol, it’s cool if you didn’t know it, I kinda just sing random songs I hear hahaha
And I just sang the guy part and did the duet with myself, lol xD
The 7 description is fairly accurate. I think we all get kinda like that at our worst though. Even if some won’t admit it, I will. I’m only human :P
And when she said I was like married, I was like, helping her cut up her chicken (I volunteer at a nursing home).

low 20’s are good. awesome.
Alrighty, hope things are good with you!

“At the beginning” from Anastasia was the last song I sang
Oh, btw, #5 is a good number just because it’s awesome. I’ve always liked 5.
I just took it again, but I think it keeps changing like every couple of months, lol

You Are 7: The Enthusiast

You are outgoing and playful - always seeing the happy side to life.
You’re enthusiastic and excitable. You love anything new.

Multi-talented, you do many things well… and find success easy.
You prefer to keep things light with others. Opening up is hard for you.

At Your Best: You are deeply involved in each experience. You appreciate life for what it is, and you take the time to enjoy each moment.

At Your Worst: You are greedy, self centered, impulsive, and insatiable.

Your Fixation: Gluttony

Your Primary Fear: Deprivation and pain

Your Primary Desire: To be satisfied and content

Other Number 7’s: Howard Stern, Cameron Diaz, Robin Williams, Jim Carey, and Jenny McCarthy.

Bleh. If I hadn’t said “switching schools”, how old would you think I was? This is so funny, haha, the other day a lady was like “are you married sweetie?” and I was like “no ma’am, I’m still in highschool” xP
haha
Peace man.

I actually sing a lot, haha, sometimes without even knowing it.
My number did, in fact, match me very well, but I think I’ve changed since I took it last year haha
And I was fifteen 2 and a half years ago xP Oh well, take care!

Hey Joey! I’m goodish, kinda anxious right now because I have to switch schools, but I’ll be alright. Haha, I always tend to sound older when I’m stressed out, but usually I’m super bubbly x.x

And #5 is a good number! Haha, maybe they made the description based on you xD

And take a guess at how old I am! It makes me feel better when people play this game with me, lol

Hello.
:P
I didn’t get lost on my first day.
I’m glad, or any other day after that.

But, some weird, short, not very nice looking, senior kid likes me. -.-;
And I already told him I’m not interested but he keeps asking me if I like someone and what I think about him.
And some new friend of mine, I made on the 2nd day liked me. :o
But we’re not going out, because there are some aspects of his life I really dislike.
For example: getting high, smoking, not being a virgin, and having the dreaded friends with benefits thing going on.
But he’s nice to me and keeps that creepy senior kid away from me. So I’ll still be his friend. (:

hi hun
I want to have a comfortable relationship. Give them lots of support and be open to whatever topic they want to talk about. I want them to feel safe with me but not looking to be their “friend”.
And I love all kinds of animals. Dog’s have to be my favourite. I actually have a dog right now.
Yes my nails are pretty long but it gets exhausting always having to get them done or something. If I have artificial nails I wouldn’t have to wry about them for a couple months. But then again I hate how artificial nails ruin your actual nail so I’m not so sure I want to get them done.
And I’m okay with drinking. It’s just sometimes I go too far and make mistakes. My girlfriends drink too but, like me, they don’t get “smashed” all the time but there are those nights where we have had one too many drinks. Under the influence of alcohol makes me more social and, usually, more sexual. But I’m not dependent on drinking. I don’t drink alone or whatever bc I am depressed, only when I want to have a good time with friends. Though I do plan to cut down on the drinking.
The website is just “fmylife.com” it’s actually pretty funny and you should definitly check it out. Though it can be addicting. You’ll find yourself saying, “I’ll just read one more post before I have to ______.”
Well Joey, you can’t blame a girl for wanting a visit from her buddy during his lunch breaks, can you?
I’m feeling pretty good sweetie. How are you? Any plans for the weekend? Take care of yourself too hun. And I don’t check my e-mail very often actually. All the best and can’t wait to hear from you.

Hey Joey
Well honostly I doubt anybody can make the wisest decisions all the time. I may make a few more mistakes then others but in the end I am okay.
I’d like perfer to have 2 kids, but that may change. I want to make sure my kids have siblings since I’m not very close with my family (other then my own siblings and parents) so I my kids have eachother in case something were to happen and they needed the emotional support (if I or the father of my kids weren’t around). And I love animals. Completely adore them.
I’m thinking I might get artificial nails and get the french (white) tip again.
I’m doing well. Yesturday I was at a friends place for a backyard BBQ. It was pretty fun. I really do need to moderate my drinking better though. It’s just booze takes a while to hit me so sometimes it’s just too late to turn back. But I’m sure if I just stay more consious of my drinking I will be better with it.
And sadly, no I don’t remember the name of the movie. I’m actually just going to relax tonight as well and watch a DVD. I was thinking of hitting the bar with a few of my girlfriends but I felt a little hungover this morning so I decided I was just going to stay in.
Anyways I’m feeling pretty good sweetie. Doing well just relaxing. Have you ever heard of the website fmylife.com? It’s pretty funny. Just people writing short stories about crappy things happening to them. You should check it out hun. So hope you are doing well and all the best. Can’t wait to hear about your day and etc.

Hey sweetie
Argh I had almost written this again on my wall before I noticed and copied the message I was about to send to you. But then I accidently coppied something else, not realising I hadn’t pasted this message yet :(
Anyways don’t be worried. I just made a bad decision but what can you do now? Learn from your mistakes and move on.
Yes I do love kids. I think I’m pretty good with them as well. There was a married couple (friends with my sister and her boyfriend) at the cottage and they had three boys. One of them was still just a baby but the other two were alot of fun. I don’t know how I could handle them 24/7 but they were really great to be with. How about you joey, you like kids? How do you feel about animals (I know it’s kind of random but I love animals too)?
Aha glad to hear you are doing well hun. Sadly my nails aren’t looking so good, gotta clean them up soon. I’ll make that list asap, I definitly need a few things. And I’m feeling all right. Gotta do a few things before I head to bed. Anyways hope everything is well Joey, hope to hear from you soon hun. :)

hiyaa
how are you hun?
Anyways I’m doing well. My friends get-to-gether was good. Did have a little too much to drink but I really don’t want to talk about thet. What’s done is done. But I am doing well. My girlfriend just had her baby recently, so I’m really happy for her. My other girlfriend just came back from portugal yesturday night so I’m planning on seeing her tomorrow or something and catch up. Things are going slow and steady but okay. I’m feeling pretty settled. My friend recommended me try meditation so I’m trying it out, hopefully it will help keep me calm, centered and at peace.
anyways how are you sweetie? how have you been doing? how’s work etc. etc.?

(oops again I accidently shouted this to myself)

Hey there hun
sorry about the late reply :)
Anyways I think it was just an emotional time for me. I suppose I just need to go with the flow and see how things go. I can’t let the idea of relationships take over my life.
Anyways I’m doing well. Just about to head out soon, spend some time with some friends, talk, have a few drinks. I did change my hair BTW to the maroon and blonde. It looks fine, whih there was more blonde highlights in it but I’m happy with it. My sister went to get her hair done with me as well, I really liked what she did. I’m thinking next time I’m going to dye all my hair a kind of dark copper-y red and have a thick blond streak on the top side. I doubt I’m explaining it very well but I think it would be a fun hairstyle. Anyways hope you’re doing well, hows life? All the best sweetie.

Hey sweetie
Yes. I realise I really need to just relax and let things come to me. I worry I made a mistake with the guy I was seeing, and maybe I should have gave it a shot, but whatever. I’ll live and will find someone worth spending my time with, it may just take a while.
Anyways my trip was extremely hard at first. I felt pretty alone and even more confused about my life back home and what I wanted and what I planned to do with everything. But four days later, I feel more relaxed. I feel so much pressure into finding a man that I can really cligue with, but it’s driving me insane! I just want to not care so much and enjoy the single life.
Anyways I’m well. Hoping to get together with some girlfriends tomorrow, go to the bar and have some fun. A nice girls-night-out.
Aha I was asking what goes through your mind generally, but it couldn’t hurt to know what goes through your mind about me also.
Anyways, hope to hear from you soon hun and hope you have been doing well and had an amazing day.

School starts August 26th!
Summer has gone by way to fast in my opinion.
.__.

Hey hun
Aha the hard part is finding what I want. I don’t know. Are you suppose to just fall for them? I’m starting to forget how it feels to actually fall for somebody. Do you just know? Or does it take a while to develope any emotions for them? I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing, but I’m lucky for many things and tonday I’ve been thinking I shouldn’t take advantage of it. For the most part I have a great support system, lots of loving friends and (not so many but it’s quality not quantity) family. I have fun and enjoy myself. I’ve just been very confused lately. I think it has to due with the fact I’m leaving tomorrow for four days to my sister’s boyfriends cottage in hope of rekindling our relationship, which honostly I’m not looking forward to. Over half a year ago alot drama and anger occured in my immediate family which caused the relationship between me and one of sisters to end. Though our relationship was never really true, just two people being polite bc we’re family and trying to act as if we truely knew eachother when we didn’t. And honostly I love my sister and would help her whenever she needed it, but her and I just don’t clique. Our personalities just don’t match. So I’m just really nervous and frustrated about this trip.
Anyways I’m happy I could impress you :)
And it’s exactly like, “eh..he is a good guy and has good traits, but I dont feel him.” He’s an okay guy, but it just doesn’t make sence. But now I’m having mixed thoughts thinking maybe I made a mistake. But I know deep down it is only bc I’m trying to settle. I just have alot to think about. One of the only reasons I’m looking forward to this trip is so I can excape for a bit, maybe clear my head and figure out what I really want.
Anyways I hope you are doing fantastic and all the best. Tell me how YOU are Joey. I barely know what goes through your mind. How do you feel? How are your emotions? etc. etc. anyways take care hun.

Hey hun
Uhm who I am as a partner…I treate them the same as I would to anybody I care about. Respectful, caring, available to them when they want me to be. Also being friends with my partners friends and vice versa is important to me. It’s pretty much as if they were my friend minus the intamacy. I also put in more of an effort into the relationship and try to get to know them and allow them to get to know me. I’m very loving and affectionate at times, though usually my partner has to be the one to initiate it. Not that I’m shy but it just how I’m built. How about you?
And aha Joey I’m teasing you, trying to put a smile on your face. You don’t have to worry about anything, I don’t plan on you being easy. And honostly I would have to get to know you as a partner then just a person before I have your heart on my hands.
I’m not sure if I’m looking for that one person to share my life with. I don’t know if I’m ready for that commitment. Then again I am looking for a serious relationship. If I do find that one person I decide I can actually share my life with, I’m not saying I would let them get away. I don’t plan on dating guys I don’t like very much just bc I’m not exactly looking for “forever” but I just don’t expect on the next guy I meet to be that for me.
I’m just kind of confused bc I don’t know if I’m gaining more then what I’m loosing. On one hand I had someone who was affectionate, interested in my and gave me alot of attention. On the other hand I was honost with a guy, didn’t use him, and now I can look forward to meeting someone I really do like.
Anyway hope you had a nice day and all the best.

BTW sorry about the delay in reply, I sent the message to myself again.. :)

My are does suck. That’s why I want to move to Ohio or somewhere interesting. Maybe Texas?

Hahaha, Lol.
I’ve seen that 16 &Pregnant.
That last think I’d do is get pregnant at that age. I’m sticking to my plan of abstinence. :P
That made my night, though.

I’ll be glad to keep you updated on how my high school days go and if I’m being bothered. You’ll probably be the first to know. :D

:)
No I never blame myself for someone not wanting me. You can’t make someone not willing to love you, love you. The worst I have ever thought was, “What did I do to deserve this?” or “Why did this happen to me?”
Aha alot of work and cleverness? Now that sounds like a challenge to me joey. And thanks for thinking I’m a great and beautiful person. I ended it with that guy last night. I just sent him a text saying how I thought he was a great guy and I really respect him but I think it would be better if we stopped seeing eachother as anything but friends. You want to know his response? “Ok, works for me.” Hmm I guess I expected that. I’m kind of confused right now. But I think I made the right decision. And I want to meet somebody that will make me feel happy to be with. I’m not asking for “forever” but I just, like you said, miss that feeling when you actually have deep feelings for somebody. Anyways I’m still doing well and I hope you are too hun. All the best and have a great day.

Yeah, that’s behind my absence of help.
I’m trying to get back into the habit of getting on here more often. (: To see if I can help with anything.

I can handle drama pretty well since I dislike it so much. Any of my friends that smoke, I tell them to take it else where and for random people that ask me to get high with them, I tell them that it’s stupid and useless. Because one way or another, after being “happy”, it will still be there waiting to become resolved.

Ah, that’s good to hear with your job. I’m also trying to get out of my comfort zone. Aka, leaving my house more. Eh, it’s been slow. There’s nothing to do where I live, so that doesn’t help.
:P Ohh, you’re going to be even buffer than I imagine you as. Haha.

About finding someone, yeah, I can relate.
I’m looking to, but no one really seems to capture my attention.

Thanks a lot for the advice. :D
I really appreciate it.

And, I hope you find that special someone. ;)

Aha yes I know it was pretty fast, and as usual you replied quite quickly yourself.
Well if I screw it up, as I said before, that’s what motel rooms are for (:
Honostly it’s not that I’m putting myself in heartache. Honostly everybody has their share of heartache, I suppose my problem is that I’m rushing myself into having feelings for somebody again. But you should know, I have never stayed in a relationship with someone when I realised it just wasn’t right. Of course I stay in for a little longer only to see how I feel but I never stick with it just for the guilt.
aha thanks, but honostly the way I see it is, being “attractive” is just an accident of birth that, coincidentally, the stereotypes and judgements of the world work in favor of. Everybody should be happy with who they are inside and out, a confident (but not cocky) person always seems more “attractive”. But thanks you’re very sweet. Wouldn’t it be easier though if you could see someone’s inner beauty at a glance? would save so much time and effort.
Aha and I agree with you hun, I definitly don’t want a guy that follows any of those characteristics.
Aha yes, a sweet melody would be lovely.
And I really don’t know about the Radiohead song…I’m pretty sure it’s recent but I just really like that one. Also I loved the violins in “Bittersweet symphony”. I can’t say I’ve ever seen the commercials with Song 2 in it. And though I may want to see you dance around in your underwear to Song 2, it’s only for your own good when I tell you it’s a great song to dance in your underwear.
Uhmm… aha thanks. I don’t know I guess it’s another thing I do alot nest to the apologizing alot. I like to ask how others days went. It’s always nice to know someone is interested in the average events that occur in your life.
And no I haven’t changed my ahir colour yet. I will be in a couple weeks I suppose. I justed wanted to add I hope you don’t think I’m troubled or depressed with my life. Sometimes I come off that way only because I’m pretty open with the events that occure in my life. But I just wanted to let you know I realise I am okay and fine, and I’m very happy.
Well I hope you sleep well hun, and have a great day tomorow. All the best, and remember: If something unexpected or crazy comes up in your life, I’m open to hear about it :)

PS. Your nicknames you give me (lil’ chocolate, Strawberry Shortcake, sweetie strawberry peaches and cream) are adorable
And I almost sent this to myself again, but I realised just in time :)

It’s one of those songs that sound better loud…extremely loud when you’re home alone and dance around only in your underwear.
PS. sorry for sending you three messages. I kept forgetting to add stuff before I finished :)

BTW I just remembered, do you know that song from the 90’s, “Song 2″ by Blur? man you have to listen to that.

Hey sweetie
Aha well I may be a terrible co-pilot but that’s what motels are for aren’t they?
I am forcing myself to have feelings for this guy. I think this is a mixture of me being sick and tired or ending up at the same place: realising the guy isn’t what you want and having you start over. And feeling that if I don’t date somebody else I’m not actually moved on from my ex. Which I am. I just really miss that feelings where you don’t need to remind yourself why you are still with this person. That feeling where I look into a guy’s eyes and “actually get nervous and feel my heart beat a bit faster”. I really really miss that. I miss actually having some body I like have feelings for me, and just being in love. But I know the time will come at the most unexpected time and I just have to be honost with myself. Now this has nothing to do with me but I was just wandering, what is the best way to break up with a guy (in your oppinion)? This isn’t focused on anyone specific but I have never asked a guy this and I’m thinking it would be very helpful during many different situations to me in the future.
Also I love champagne supernova! Do you know oasis’ song, “Supersonic”? I also love smashing pumpkins! Do you know the song by Radiohead, “high and dry”? awesome song in my opinion. Or “Bittersweet symphony” by The Verve? I don’t know whether those songs are from the 90’s but they’re great. And aha well you are open to touch my radio anyday Joey.
I’m glad I could make you laugh today hun :)
It’s nice to know that one of the billion of laughters that occured in this world today was caused by me :)
Also Joey, hun how are you? I’m telling you some of the history and drama that has/had occured in my life but have forgotten to ask about yours. Anything interesting occure lately? Anyway hope you had an amazing day and all the best.

Joey :)
Aha no I don’t mean that hun. I mean that if you gave me directions, even the simplest, I would still find a way to mess them up. Also I’m terrible at memorizing how to get to places I’ve already been. So even if I’ve been there a couple times I would still need assistence.
Oh I understand hun. I don’t believe you were judging me, only stating your own oppinion, which I am open to. And thank you Joey. I’m just happy with who I am and I know what I like to do for fun and whatever so I don’t believe anyone has a right to tell me what they believe I should be doing. Everybody is different, some people perfer a more conservative life style and do care alot about how they present themselves. Others, like me, though like everybody else I do care about how I present myself, I’m comfortable with who I am and with the decisions I make. Sure, not everybody will agree with me, but I may not agree with others as well. I’m just a strong believer in people doing what makes them happy (to a certain extent).
We are definitly good sweetie. I don’t mind you not agreeing with me. It’s okay. Everybody is different and we can’t all agree with eachother, now can we?
Aha now I wouldn’t want you to pinch the lower left side of my hip, so I guess I have to tell you. It isn’t anything serious anyway. It’s just this guy I’ve been seeing. You see, I came out of a serious relationship over half a year ago and it changed alot of my standards towards men, for the better. But now I find myself meeting guys and trying to persure a relationship but becoming disapointed to find that they are not what I’m looking for, as I’ve told you. And this guy I’ve been seeing is starting to become that…I’m realising that, though he is a good guy, he doesn’t fit the mold of men that I am looking for. I’m trying to give him a chance because it may be possible that since my ex it may just take some time before I feel attracted to another guy again, but I’m worried that I’m just lying to myself and am not, and may never, be truely attracted to this guy. He’s a nice guy, but I just don’t know. I’m just getting tired of going down this road over and over again (dating a guy and then loosing interest). But it really isn’t anything, I’m just concerned I’ll end up hurting him. But I don’t have a clue what I’m feeling so I’m thinking I should give it some more time and effort (instead of just giving in, bc, after all, this could just be confusion from my ex bc I haven’t dated someone since him so it may be hard to do). And if it obviously doesn’t feel right, I can’t keep dragging him along because he deserves someone actually interested and I deserve someone who actually makes me happy.
BTW I love Nirvana :D This is probably an obvious band but have you ever listened to the Red Hot Chili Peppers? They’re a great band. Also Oasis is a good band (Wanderwall is a great song). Here check out this link for 90’s rock songs. Its great and I really like alot of the songs: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jA8huM…
It also has Nirvana on it :D
And I do say sorry alot. It’s kind of an ahbit…I was actually just going to apologize for saying sorry so much. Also you don’t need to worry if I shouted myself, I’ll check it and send resend the message if anything (: Also I’m feeling alot better. Writing this message, realising if in the end I don’t like this guy, I have to end it even though it would be another disapointment it would get me closer to finding a guy I actually have feelings for. Anyways all the best hun and hope you have an amazing day.

Hiya joey.
ahaha sorry for driving you crazy. wait till you see how I’m with directions, now that will drive you crazy.
And I relise it doesn’t give people the best impression of me when I say I’m okay with hook ups, but honostly that is who I am. Sometimes I don’t mind having a one-night stands when I’m in the moment.
I agree with you there. Too many people say, “I love you” thinking love is someone else making you happy, but love is the willingness to want to make someone else happy.
I just meant basically I’m okay but earlier today I wasn’t doing my best. I’m alot better now I just went to work and then was at a friends place for a little get-together to get my mind off things.
BTW joey, how could you not like 90’s rock? I honostly believe, for my taste in music, 90’s rock is the best.
anyways hope your day was good and can’t ait to read all about it :)

okay actually I sent this message to myself again and I was wandering why you hadn’t reply. Sorry (:

Hello.
(:
I’ve been much better these days, actually.
Summer vacation is coming to a close. D:
Eh, I’m nervous about that huge highschool.

How have you been?
I’ve missed you.

Hey joey, sorry about the late reply again..
and I don’t know…like I’ll pull up the blanket close to my eye’s but I always peep through to see what happens. It’s just such a waist if you miss the scary scenes.
aha I’m terribly sorry I forgot about the name. And damn there was this other scary movie…it was japanese though. I definitly recommend you watching some japanese scary movies. The thing they do are so twisted it’s frightening.
I agree with you. Some people are just unable to have that fun, yet meaningless experience while others perfer that. I’m definitly more of a relationship person, I find it hard to even have that one-night stand without some emotional attachment. Though sometimes the “why not” factor kicks in for me and I do enjoy the occational one-night stand.
I honostly think that cheating is usually also caused by the “why not” factor. People sometimes just get caught up in the moment. Or other times people are just like that and are unable to stay faithful to their partner.
yes but it’s called a french peticure (not sure if I actually spelled that right). Manicure for hands, peticure for feet. (:
I’m am so very sorry this reply is so delayed. I’ve been alright. Just enjoying myself, personally not in the best mood right now but I’m fine. (: How are you? I’m hoping all is well and I hope for the best.
ps. I like rock bands from the 90’s. rock is my favourite. Classic rock, alternative rock etc. etc. I love all kinds of music but rock music is my favourite. How about you hun?

hey hun.
And I won’t cover my eye’s during the scary scenes. I’ll just keep my body under the blanket, it makes me feel more comfortable :)
And sorry, I forgot the name of the movie, but if you ever come across it, it is definitly your moneys worth.
Also I completely agree with you. Being emotionally strong is a very important characteristic I look for in a guy.
I don’t think one night stand are that terrible if both people realise it is just a one night stand and don’t mind it being. And cheating-though both people may be okay with it just being a one night stand someone is getting hurt. One night stands are viewed as promiscuous but if this is what both people want then whatever makes people happy.
And a french manicure is with the white tips. I got them filed and smoothed in addition to getting a french manicure. I don’t think there are any other names (or I just don’t know about them) other then a french manicure.
The party was good hun, thanks. How are you doing? Also sorry about the delay in my responce you your last message. I sent you a message before but I don’t think it was sent properly. So I always thot you just haven’t been on help recently to check it. Anyways all the best hun and hope you are doing well.

Hey joey. And not at all, tipe as much as you want (:
Even if I’m watching a movie late at night by myself. If you give me a blanket to hide under during the scary parts I’m good to go.
Aha yeah the Emily movie was pretty scary. And I never saw REC but if it’s just as scary or scarier then Quarantine then I’ll scream my head off. Tell me joey, do you ever scream while watching a scary movie?
Anyways I don’t think I’ve ever seen those movies you were talking about. But I love those kind of movies, where some crazy decease turns everyone into zombies or whatever then everybody is freaking out, trying to survive. I forgot the name of one movie, it was really good though. It’s not really scary. It’s about some decease that makes everybody blind…But at first they only think it has infected like 50 people so they tramp them in some building but when those people excape they realise everybody is infected and it’s all madness. Great movie, you should definitly see it.
And yes usually this is the time where I realise traits in their personality that I can not handle. But I don’t blame it on myself, I just frustrated by this continious cycle.
I agree with you. I want to meet that person that will make me want to be better for them, the person that I truely love and care about bc they are just that amazing.
“When I see it ain’t going right, or that the other person is mistreating it (heart), I take it back…eventhough I can suffer in the process.” I agree with you there. Though sometimes it is hard to let go. I believe one of the hardest things I have ever had to do was let go and move on.
I’m not saying it is a good thing you hurt from break-ups but I’m glad to hear yuo take relationships very seriously. I like that you give yourself time before you move on, only to help yourself and your future partner in the process. I’m also glad to hear you don’t try to steal away someone’s girlfriend. Too many guys either don’t respect that the women is taken or doesn’t mind just being the man she cheated on her boyfriend/husband with. Which honostly I don’t understand why so many guys don’t mind this, a man deserves more then to be that ond night stand that she has just to excape from her boyfriend/husband.
And aha…Uhmm I just got them cleaned up and filed…they were getting really cracked and feeling really unhealthy so I just got them filed and smooth. And got them painted too (just a french manicure).
Anyways I’m doing alright. A friend invited me to a party the night before yesturday so I went there. I’m suppose to go to another party/get-together tonight at my friends apartment. He usually throws good parties so I’m hoping it will be good. Anyway Have a great day hun and all the best. Take good care of yourself.

Hey hun and don’t even worry about it I don’t mind at all.
I’d first like to mention, before I forget, I’m also a “stay-up-late” kind of person. I think it’s bc it takes a while before I actually get tired and I only like to go to sleep when I’m dead tired. If I get the opportunity I’ll stay up till 3-4 in the morning. I’m also not a morning person so I like to stay in bed till 1-2 in the afternoon or so, if I get the opportunity. Also I watched “the exorcism of emily rose”…I believe that was the true story? And from what I can remember it was pretty scary. I can’t remember stopping a movie before I finished it. Unless I fall asleep. Oh man joey I don’t even see how you could do that! That’s not being in the movie spirit! You need to watch the whole thing, it’s just not the same watching the last half of it the next day! BTW have you seen “The Quarantine”…I believe it’s also a true story. Hun that was pretty scary you should definitly watch that. What was 28 days about? Was that the one where everybody was turning into a zombie and like 10 people or so trapped themselves in a mall?
And all you said about relationships I truely do agree with you. I definitly need to be ineterested in a man at first. Which isn’t so hard bc all it takes is me finding him some-what attractive and stay some-what mysterious where I want to get to know him. But then I hit a more delicate step. Staying interested and becoming more attracted to him, bc, usually, at this point the man will start to show his true personality and I usually end up realising this is not what I am looking for. Then I get to know his deeper side: who he is as a partner. Also all the questions you stated I think are quite important as well. And aha yes, I think that is great of you for not involving cooking or cleaning. I must say Joey, you are quite the catch for any women who ends up with you.
I also completely agree with your “default requirements”. I can’t say there is a single thing I disagree with. I also liked how you put that, “‘love’ you may be developing for that person should be kicking in and making it enjoyable.” Just as any man, I also need the man I’m with to be confident. Honostly though the hard thing is a man who doesn’t want to “jump” at himself in the mirror…Don’t ask. All I can say is once he said that…It all went down hill.
“the actions you take and the way you react to things also ’say’ (in a non verbal way) things about you” I’ll definitly think about that more often hun. I never really do TBH.
And thank you about the “sweetest person on the planet” comment. That’s actually one of the nicest things I’ve heard in a while. And sadly I don’t know about my friends flight I haven’t contacted her yet since she left, but I’m sure she’s fine.
And I do have a question for you Joey, why are you still single? You seem like a really nice guy, I don’t see why you haven’t found someone yet. (Honostly if this is too personal then you don’t even have to answer it)
ps. My day was fine. Got a manicure and had some lunch. Went to work, slow day. How about you?

Hiya Joey.
First off you may be right again with falling for a guy too soon. It does take a while for me to really like a guy but when I do I suppose I can fall for them to soon. I just don’t know if I’m doing something wrong with my dating skills. What does attract a man to a women when still early in the relationship, where they are skill just trying to learn the basics of one another?
And I’m glad you think that way Joey, I’ll try to never let a man think he is better then me.
I think alot of me being so picky with men now is from my last break up. Honostly though I’m happy single or not, I’d rather be single then let a man screw me over.
Honostly I don’t know if my inner beauty is that beautiful. I’d like to hope it is..
And aha Joey I found it pretty akward as well when I thought you were serious about going out on a date but don’t worry about it hun, I’ve had way more akward conversations in my life. These things happen.
Also I agree with you. Sometimes people can let their heart make their choices, even when they know deserve so much more. Emotions, it’s amazing how much power they have over you. And my self of steem is good. I do have confidence in myself, obviously everybody has their insecurities but I’m pretty happy with who I am.
My twin sister is actually ferternal, though we do look alot a like.
And my day was fine hun, dropped by my mom’s and help her do some things. Nothing fancy-was a pretty slow day. And aha I also watched “The Haunting in Connecticut”. I’m a pretty good thriller/horror movie fan. Not so into the bloody ones (ex. “I know what you did last summer”) But movies like “The Ring” or “The Grudge” I’m really into. Plus when I’m not watch my scary movies in a theater I usually watch them in a dark room-makes them so much better in my oppinion.
And I watched the video you sent me, thanks for sending it to me BTW aha I thought it was pretty funny.

Aha no problem joey.
And what do you mean by “Too much too soon?”
Example…Well I’ll meet a guy and at first he’ll seem alright and I feel like I’m finally meeting someone I could fall for but then I started noticing habits…characteristics that gradually but quickly show up. Such as them being too clingy, or too cocky, etc. etc. As if God was trying to tease me with these men.
And I did once. This amazing guy. He was everything I thought I wanted. It was literally as if he was made for me. But then some events occured and we had to seperate for sometime and I suppose he lost interest..
And yes it most definitly is easy to misinterprate things in text.
Joey you are actually right on the dot. I do believe I “get run” by my emotions. And yes I probably do drink a little more then I should.
Yes I am very close with my family. Mostly my mother and twin sister, I absolutely adore them.
Hope you had a good day Joey, tell me all about it. Take care.

Thanks!

Aha well I’m glad I could make you laugh joey.
I’m glad you agree with me on the belly button piercing btw :)
And the “Aha do you know?” just meant “Oh so do you think I should take you out?” Not really that meaningful I have to say.
Yeah I understand what you mean about baggage free. I’m sure you’ll find a women anytime soon joey, you just have to put yourself out there. Honostly meeting a man I am actually interested is where I come into the crappy luck. It seems that there is always something wrong or I just can’t get myself to fall for them.
1. I believe a relationship should be about two people making the choice to share themselves to one another. They should respect and care for one another. etc. etc. Basically two people making the choice to be with one another. There are also open relationships and etc.
2. What I can tell you is what a man should be. A man should be honost. Strong (emotionally). Caring. Have goals in life and actually try to pursue them. He must know how to respect and care for his women. And never think he is any better then she is. etc. etc.
And I’m sorry joey. Aha I thought you were seriouse about the whole “date” idea I didn’t realise you were being sarcastic.
Me too nice for you? Why do you say that? You seem very nice joey.
And I’m alright. We had a little going away party for one of my girlfriends (she is leaving for a month to visit family in Portugal) And well I had a little too much to drink, and not to mention my girlfriend who is leaving had even more then enough to drink. I had to take care of her throughout the night. I woke up feeling a little sick so I had to rest a little more and she woke up, again, even more sicker. Anyway I’m just about to head out and grab some…well I haven’t had breakfast yet but I guess it’s lunch with my girlfriends. Hope you have an amazing day hun all the best.

Hey joey.
Aha I meant it sarcasticly of course. Hopefully you got that.
Aha oh well I must thank you for graciously forgiving me.
Thanks…I didn’t really get it to be sexy. More just for the experience of having a facial piercing. But I did thought it looked pretty cool. And I honostly think the belly button piercing is sexy as hell but way to over done.
And the “Aha do you now?” was sarcasm. Cause you said I should take you out for dinner. Keep in mind I did warn you I would be making many unfunny sarcastic jokes you would not get.
I have been hurt but honostly who hasn’t. It’s just not one of my lucky feilds. And I’m trying to take a break on dating and just trying to enjoy the care-free single life.
Sorry but I don’t understand what you mean by “I know its been a couple of days, but I do remember your face Sandy…especially the eyes with eyeliner, nice to look at.”
And I’m sorry. aha to be honost I was just kind of shocked about you bringing up the whole asking you out thing I forgot. I’m 20 btw. And aha you are more then welcome to judge me on that.
I also want to point out I doubt I live around you so maybe we should not try to pursue this whole date idea..?
And I’m doing pretty well hun thanks for asking. How are you? all the best.

hey joey.
thanks. not that much, I don’t want to damage my hair plus it’s pretty pricey. like once or twice a year I guess.
Aha not many people get under their tounge pierced I guess. But no I talk the same way as I did before getting it done. I can’t click my tounge though bc of friction from my web but whatever, I’ll live.
IMO? sorry I don’t know what that means. And yeah I do find piercings sexy too. The ones I have aren’t as sexy as many others (like the belly button peircing) but I chose them bc I thought they were original.
Aha do you now? Hun I have to be honost I don’t normally meet guys over the internet. Well I have tried but it’s not really my thing. Honostly dating in general is not really my thing. You would probably do better without.
And I did it was a good day, thanks. How are you doing joey?
PS. aha I know about the shout trail thing. I just plan to write to someone but as soon as I finish reading their message I forget I haven’t clicked shout trail yet and send the message to myself.
again all the best hun, have an amazing day.