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• What are your thoughts….. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  I am writing an article about my healing. Please leave constructive criticism as I value your opini…

• I know this helped me. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  I thought I would share some interesting quotes: “Whatever happens, is the only thing that c…

• I have repressed my emotions for so long. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  How do I help myself to emotionally release them. I feel terrified when I come close to releasing th…

• So here are my problems: I am paralyzed, have trouble getting a job(unemployed) but really want to work, can’t get a date to save my life and am posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  here are my problems: I am paralyzed, have trouble getting a job(unemployed) but really want to wor…

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cherryjlu's Top (1) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I’ve tried therapy and it hasn’t helped.
  

  Maybe you need a diff therapist, or diff meds. Don’t end it, you don’t know what 2morrow brings. Check your meds!
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Puck You

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• I just want to kill myself, i`m making people that
  

  You are not useless, in fact you are very special. Your body/mind/spirit is trying to get your attention. You have an important role to play, and you WILL benefit others. I recommend writing in a journal and asking yourself why it is you have these emotions. Have you repressed something? A good therapist would also help. I went through a period of HELL and realized I was not listening to myself. We are taught to bury our emotions and when we do- BOOM! They get bottled up, you get confused & twisted, and explode! If writing a journal is not appealing try drawing or painting and see what comes out. It does not matter if it’s good, it’s your emotions expressing themselves. It’s a release. It may be horrible at first, but stay with it. There are lessons to learn. Then others people will need your help who are going through what you are experiencing! Let me know if this helps. If you plan on hurting yourself just think: you will hurt those close to you more than you think you have. And me.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• What are your thoughts…..
  

  Thank you for your reply james_xd. The article is going to be published in a small newsletter, and I wanted opinions on its readability. I think you will appreciate it more than most.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• What are your thoughts…..
  

  I know this is a long read, but I really would like your advise.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• Recently my boyfriend of just about a year, got into a motorcycle accident.
  

  You need to let him go, unless he gets help. If you don’t you will enable him. If you love him, you need to practice this tough love. Realize he may not change even if you leave him, but you’ll save yourself a lot of pain. If he didn’t learn from the accident, and he lies about his drinking then he is headed down a bad road. I’ve been in a similar situation and finally had to let go. She still drinks heavily to this day.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• i dont want to kill me and i am still here on help.
  

  Writing really helped me. I was surprised what came out onto the paper. There are times when I hate my friends. May be time to make some new ones. You may have grown and they may not be healthy for you. I attracted the wrong people for some time and had to part ways and move on.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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