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• Why does my dancing seem to attract the wrong kind of people? posted (1 hour, 2 minutes) ago
  It’s like.. I only meet people from bars and such when i go out because i refuse to go out …

• What should i do? posted (1 week, 3 days) ago
  As some of you know, i’m currently going to culinary and service school in my country, and i…

• I am not wrong! posted (1 week, 6 days) ago
  My recipe for happiness is a lifetime supply of chocolate, vodka, and the occasional bottle of cham…

• When in a relationship, i absolutely cannot communicate. posted (2 weeks, 5 days) ago
  Even the thought of telling the person i’m going out with how i feel, freaks me out completely…

• I’ve been seeing things for a while now, and i am scared to go see a doctor or tell my family. posted (4 weeks) ago
  I only told one person about it, who wants me to get checked pretty badly and i’ve only told h…

• Please, give me words of encouragement or send me energy. posted (1 month) ago
  I need to study another hour, and sleep for one hour then get up for school. Help!…

• I need to live a little, go a little wild. posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  When i start getting these types of feelings though, i tend to go over the top with my going wild, a…

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darkscorpia's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) My boyfriend and i broke up after 2 yrs.
  

  [quote baucom197]I agree with what your saying but also think that he was confused, of course he wants to be in the childs. I do think that he loves me but he already has 2 children from his first marriage and he only sees them every other w/e. He is a very good father and always puts his kids first, that’s why i somewhat believe that he went back to her on the acct. of the child. My problem is insecurity b/c of what i delt with and yes if i can learn to trust him again then i think that i can deal with the ex and without a doubt the child. He and had probs in the first place that’s why we splt. Anyhow, if it doesn’t work than it doesn’t. He has apologized to me but my anxiety about it has been tremendous so i can understand his frustrations when i analyze the sit. more. I just want to stand by him and show that i love him unconditional and just maybe i’ll have good results. It may seem like a worthless attempt to an outsider but my heart tells me to stick it out a little longer.[/quote]
  
  It’s not a worthless attempt. It is brave to try again, when you know you might get hurt :) I wish you luck; but remember that you need to think of yourself too.
  
  - written 4 months ago – voted for by baucom197

• (1 vote) I like Cake.
  

  I = Love cake
  cake = my love
  my love = love
  therefore cake = love
  love = cake
  
  I CAKE YOU!
  
  =]
  
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by Jennaaaxox

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• Why does my dancing seem to attract the wrong kind of people?
  

  [quote evansent:)]good for you lv, the last thing i want is you to get hurt over someones dirty mind :)
  
  you take care kiddo x[/quote]
  
  thanks, take care too x
  - written 37 minutes ago

• Why does my dancing seem to attract the wrong kind of people?
  

  [quote evansent:)]you know, in that pic you do look flirtatious, pouty like (no offence)
  
  what do you mean your way of escape?
  
  also you do what you feel comfy witjh lv, howver if its giving of ythe wrong signals, then its time to lower the tone im afraid
  the last thing you need is some jerk getting the wrong idea&such :/[/quote]
  
  yeah i’ll tone it down i guess
  
  
  
  [quote Anonymous]I doubt it has anything to do with dancing. You’re meeting guys at a club, don’t expect to bring home prince charming. If you’re looking for a relationship you meet those kind of people at school, grocery store, work, coffee shops, even at chill bars condusicve for talking. I go out quite a bit and I’m not looking to find my wife abd I can tell what the girl is like by dancingwith them.[/quote]
  
  i dont expect prince charming i expect at least a decent human being but maybe that’s too much to ask for at the moment xD oh well. I’ve made mistakes, i’ve hurt people i wish i hadn’t because i was too scared to feel, I’m not perfect either, and i don’t deserve someone perfect because i’m not and there’s no such thing really.
  - written 39 minutes ago

• Why does my dancing seem to attract the wrong kind of people?
  

  [quote Dr. Ralph]When you dance like a wh##re people expect you to be one. If you act like that in public they expect you to act like that and worse when you are alone. Normal human reaction. I would think you were a $l*t if you were on the dance floor bending over and shaking your butt and rubbing against people and simulating sex acts.[/quote]
  
  i honestly have seen worse dancing then mine, it was just a comment that was passed and bothered me a little. I don’t see why people have to judge. It’s human nature fine, but it’s a hobby, it’s the way i escape stress and such. I hate the stigma that comes along with it, and the people i meet turn out to be jerks. I don’t do it on purpose, like ‘hey let’s go out and whor* around, but apparently i look like a w*ore when i dance.
  - written 49 minutes ago

• Why does my dancing seem to attract the wrong kind of people?
  

  [quote Summer Rain]As long as you don’t act like one when you get off the dance floor, shouldn’t be a problem.[/quote]
  
  I don’t..
  
  
  
  [quote evansent:)]ouch! you dance like a whore!
  thats not nice, you mean you dance to provocatively
  
  its easy just tone it down a little :)
  
  also i think it it depends on what music your listening to&the mood your in.
  
  which one are you in the picture?[/quote]
  
  the one with the black hair..**** i want to change that pic.. broken site :(
  and i try to sometimes, but dancing is my way out and how i escape and things, sometimes i think why should i change that? yet i seem to get myself in trouble every now and then xD
  - written 54 minutes ago

• i want to know i’m not disposable.
  

  You are only disposable to the people who don’t matter.
  - written 4 days, 2 hours ago

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