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• Help answer the pros and cons of having children?
  

  I recently had a child, she is now 9 weeks old. Honestly, the only way I can describe it is that it is the single hardest thing I’ve ever done and also the best thing that’s ever happened to me. It’s expensive, especially since the mother was unable to breast feed formula is about $40-50 a week and diapers are $30 a week. It’s quite an impact if your already on a tight budget (which I am) but it’s all worth it when you get those times in between crying and changing diapers where they are calm and happy and content at just looking at you, or falling asleep in your arms. It’s pretty amazing.
  
  Another thing is it’s really difficult not being able to do whatever you want to do in life. You always have to be concerned for the care of your child, and it can be pretty difficult to accept as a young parent. (Only 19 here) However, although it has been a difficult experience. It’s far worth it in my opinion. It’s not just about procreation, it’s just having someone in your life that loves you unconditionally and who is dependant on you. It’s kind of a humbling thought. I’ll stop rambling now.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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