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• Power On posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Each day we all need to recharge our spiritual battery, otherwise the light of our consciousness be…

• A smile for the day… posted (10 months) ago
  I took my dad to the mall the other day to buy some new shoes (he is 92). We decided to grab a bi…

• What’s Your Favourite Christmas Song? posted (10 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Feel free to share, here’s mine…I’m not religious but just love the way it’…

• ‘Owed to Joy’ posted (10 months, 2 weeks) ago
  The year our youngest daughter, Shelly, was four, she received an unusual Christmas present from &#…

• Happy Belated Birthday JellyBelly! posted (10 months, 3 weeks) ago
  ! I just found out now but wanted to send you birthday wishes, all the best to a lovely lady!! [yo…

• YAY! posted (10 months, 3 weeks) ago
  !!!!!!! For those of you who have supported me the last while, I wanted to share some good news. I…

• The Night Before Christmas For an Attorney posted (10 months, 4 weeks) ago
  Whereas, on an occasion immediately preceding the Nativity festival,throughout a dwelling unit, qui…

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miss_enigma's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (3 votes) Need help about having an affair.
  

  Smack yourself upside the head several times and see how that feels. Chances are it will hurt a lot less than what your wife would like to do to you if she ever found out.
  
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago – voted for by ~~EdieAnne~~, Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ, doggybag

• (2 votes) Help!
  

  Less talky talky and more walky walky!!!
  
  ;)
  
  - written 1 year ago – voted for by Hyde, closed

• (2 votes) i want to find an easy fun girl that is disease free in san diego….
  

  “i want to find an easy fun girl that is disease free in san diego…”
  
  Isn’t that like asking for seconds in the bread line?
  Requesting a “do over” on your income tax?
  Asking to take back your confession to a murder?
  Wishing for a seven thousand leaf clover?
  Returning a box of condoms for a refund?
  Finding a money tree that holds a holy grail and the meaning of life on a tablet that is water soluble, unprotected and buried 3000 leagues under the sea?!
  
  - written 1 year ago – voted for by Anubis, seas light

• (2 votes) I’m soooo sad :( he said when he got his phone back on I would be the first one he calls, its been on for 4 days now.
  

  Men! *opens a bag of chips*..I swear, they just don’t get it sometimes. Grrrr! *talks with mouth full* Schuns o Beasches!
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by Anubis, Felicity on break

• (2 votes) I feel so ugly…
  

  You are beautiful. Why? Because you are unique from anyone one else in this world and you need to find what you think is beautiful about yourself. What makes you beautiful?
  
  You don’t want someone who is only attracted to you for your looks…the whole package is what is truly important.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by Animal i have become, Devil_on_Earth

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• hi..my problem is that i don’t have confidence.whenever
  

  It sounds as though you are having some trouble with anxiety. Try taking some deep breaths and assessing what the worst is that can happen and what you would do so that you can feel more confident and comfortable, more in control of these situations. If you feel you can’t calm yourself you might need to seek out a counselor or therapist to help you find out why you are feeling anxious.
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• Come one come all and help me wish lilies a happy
  

  Happy Birthday Lilies! Enjoy your day :)
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• I accept the wonderful miracle of a greater present,
  

  I read the title and was like “WTF?!” then I read the post and all is well and right once again in my little universe.
  
  Phew! That was close.
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• Peace Day
  

  Sans is right Baba, I have faced depression at times in my life and it goes away when I feel ok with my lack of control over the universe lol. I too suffered from stomach problems, my son does too. He also presents as angry when anxious. I encourage him to get that anger out and I think the best thing we can do is teach them to use the language of feelings. Also in turn to acknowledge and become familiar with their feelings. It’s suppressing them that causes tummy aches.
  
  On the bright side, your son is experiencing this likely because he is insightful and sensitive. Two traits that will serve him well once he learns more about himself and others. He must be a very bright boy indeed, exceptionally so. Is he creative? You could encourage him to paint, draw, write or pursue music which are all excellent ways of expressing one’s self.
  
  Try to think less of this as a lifelong sentence and more like an awakening to who he is and how he can accept and embrace the person he is, in a positive way. How this bout with anxiety and being down can teach him so much that will serve him well in this life.
  
  Strategies that will help him feel in control of his atmosphere will help too, also teaching that things sometimes are out of his control and “what’s the worst that will happen?” and how would he react to them and make it “ok” for himself.
  
  You are bright and loving so I’m sure you will think of ways to help him, you already have Baba.
  
  What’s that saying? That God doesn’t hand us anything we can’t handle? He has faith in you, for good reason ;)
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• I’m starting a petition to bring Dani Hates You back as a Mod… she was the only one that ever spent any time here and she was one of us!
  

  I’m in, bring Dani back!
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

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