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Oh Nick I am so sorry I couldn’t get here earlier! The only advice I can give is to cry your little heart out and then move on to the next invisible lady or maybe even a blow up doll, but only if you feel you are ready.

My parents stayed together for me and my siblings and we didn’t appreciate it one bit as it made them bitter and when they ended up giving up we all got much more hurt than we needed to be. They were also much better parents when they were finally happy.
That is not to say that you should split up, only you and your wife can work that out but your happiness means a lot more to your children than you think it does.

Me too…again!!!

Muppet. Don’t leave, if you think you are that bad tone down the sarcastic or assess a situation first

Oops sorry everyone! I LOST and I am spreading the misery! Stupid facebook!

That was brilliant! Thanks for posting

It is just a slip up, you have done so well coming this far. Don’t let it drag you down, just see it for what it is, a mistake that you can rise above.

[quote warpaddic]Your story is inspiring to me, i have been through some seriously bad things in my life im only 18 and ive managed to get through the bad times and focus on my future its listenin to people like you have made me be this way, Im Glad you finally have found a happy ending it shows that there always can be light at the end of the tunnel you must of stuck through some seriously rough times yet you fought for your children it shows that as a human anyone can be strong and get through bad spells in your life it also shows your a fantastic mum and i wish you all the best in your future your children are very lucky to have you ;D[/quote]

Thank you, that means a lot.

Brilliantly said as always!

Oh Shie that is fabulous news!!! I bet you are bouncing off the walls now. I can finally uncross my fingers now, they were starting to ache a bit
Congratulations!!!

bleach but then it may just be cream instead of blue

Glad to hear it! Its great to see you so positive!!!

Actually my kids are very bright with fabulous imaginations and are not spoiled. They are polite to everybody they meet and work very hard for what they have got.

It is parents that are lazy not the kids.

You won’t feel like that forever I promise
Shout me if you ever need to talk and good luck

S you are a brilliant person, don’t let yourself think otherwise, everybody has there problems.
Really glad you are getting out more often. You know where I am if you need me. V x