I actually have friends in real life, but i also have found many friends here. I come here every time i am done with work just to relieve some stress and take my mind off from anything except chatting with those close to me in this site. :)
I tried your mail. So nice to see old members coming back from time to time. :)
I am sending my Christmas greetings already, just incase I don’t see you here before the big day, I am sure I will but I would rather be safe than sorry!
So….
Hope you have a Fabtastic Christmas and new year!!!
Hey its good to hear from you.Well im working somethings out.Im feeling pretty good.Im gald your doing well.I know what you mean ive been bisy too.Well i hope we talk soon friend.xo
I would like to keep in touch with you and will be e-mailing you about some of the new plans I have for helping people in the future.
I feel that help.com has gone downhill in the last few months and is mostly filled with posts that are quite childish. In other words it isn’t the kind of help I wish to be assosiated with.
I will be in touch soon to let you know of any progress I make and where I am going from here on in.
I did see your last shout, I will though wait untill you have a quieter time before I respond. I am quietly closing this chapter of my life down and moving on to more fruitfull ways of helping people. If you leave your e-mail link intact, I will contact you with that when I have more time to spare.
Because of a treatment I received, my mind is not working real well and my memory is pretty well gone. I am still trying to figure out how to find e-mail addresses. My dad is reteaching me a lot but he doesn’t know much about e-mail.
I am leaving this message for every one on my friends list. It so that you will know I have no ill feelings towards any of the normal users of the website.
Below is a message I sent to Erric to explain my reasons for leaving.
Thankyou for your response to my post. I will try to explain why I feel I can not be a part of your website.
It is not to complicated to understand I hope.
The modinations post in my opinion was a farce and wasn’t thought out nor was it neccecary. While it was running as a post I left a message saying that the members should ask the person they were nominating if they were prepared to be a moderator.
This is because hmf in particular didn’t want to be one, put on the post that she didn’t want to be one, yet members still kept voting for her. She had to spell it out that she didn’t want to be a moderator again that she would not want the post.
I did not want the post and didn’t want people voting for me, so I asked that the members asked first if the person they were nominating was prepared to do the job.
It is also my oppinion that the now admins and new moderators new in advance that they had already been chosen and that they had already accepted.
There were a number of members that could see that this post was causing anger and resentment between and with each other, just to give you one example look at tap dancers reply. There were others like it but the reasons were different.
I have no interest in who was picked for these particular posts although every one of them is a very long term user.
I also think that you already know that the only moderators post I was intereted in was one that could delete the bad posts that were being put on the site at the week ends in particular. Again I would not have accepted the post if asked, I know that many members would be interested.
If you can or want to try to convince me that the whole thing was for the good of the website I would consider trying to help again.
I have though lost all faith in the admins and mods, hence my leaving.
You had the curtesy to answere my post, you deserve to have an answer.
Unfortunatly I dont remember anything of SA. Heard it was really pretty but also violent. I would like to visit there one day. See my roots and stuff. Dad was born near Watford and mum in Crawley! but Dads work took us out to SA. Apparently we have family out there. I would like to meet them. Not to sound funny but I thou you were older than me! lots older. Guess it might just be the pic. Cool thou!
Hey 31, thanx for the shout. I’m doing pretty good compared to Jan-Feb. I wish you a mountain of peace if you happen to be facing a molehill of turmoil. And, if you’re facing a mountain of disturbance, may that peak truly shrink down and feel like a molehill after a good nights sleep.
By the way, do you have moles where you live? If not, substitute some kind of burrowing rodent that doesn’t dig too deep.
I look forward to all of your messages, be they contemplative, or an exhortation, or a growth experience that you bless us all with.
Many times since my short time here, I have been very grateful for the occasions that you’ve shared an uplifting message even though you’ve been struggling with events in your life that have puzzled or saddened you.
THANK YOU for continuing to shine your light no matter how up or down you’ve been feeling.
You’re a help.com treasure, and I hope that many countless people find what you have to offer!
Thanx for the shout my friend!
I hope everything is going a ok in your part of the world! I’m doin ok, busy busy busy. I have not been online too much, look forward to chattin with you soon. Take care
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Hello friend, thanks for the shout. im trying my best to make thngs better. and now that i know that u and other guys here are just around…i know id do things pretty well.
Hello friend, thanks for the shout. im trying my best to make thngs better. and now that i know that u and other guys here are just around…i know id do things pretty well.
Hang in there my friend…waiting on the sunshine to find a different dog..lol..as my coach said one, the sun does not shine on the same dog’s butt everyday…it will be our turn…hopefully sooner than later…