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If you strong enough still, emotionally that is then make a brake for a couple of days and really dont phone him or nothin. He will wake up and fight for you if he has a back bone. Otherwise you sound really sweet get yourself together be assertive and tell him its time to grow up. 36… still going to clubs?? I dont know I agree with you dont like that at all. There is a time and place for everything and it should have been in his 20’s. Good luck.

The other girl is pregnant and in a new relationship also. Am I overreacting? What signs should there be that he doesnt really love me or that he does love me? Does this happen in a lot of relationships?

Got to ask him straight out what is up with that. Tell him what you feel and need.

To hurt like that i cant imagine it. I have had two other friends that did the same. Are they really worth it babe? Dig deep, find the positive. Dont get more negative than the situation deserves. I promise you nobody wants to be with someone with issues. They want together happy people that improve their own lives and makes them feel good. If you really want this person become happy see the beautiful things in life make them want to be with you cause it feels so good. I believe in you.

Just make the choice and get started. It not as hard as you making it out to be, get motivated believe in yourself and stick with a plan for a month atleast. Once them weight starts coming off you will be feeling so fantastic. Protien, lots of it in anyform. I had bacon eggs or omlets with mushroom and chees for breakfast, one or the other of course. No toast no carbs. No waffles or patato. Then for a snack i would have cheese and ham, just like that. For lunches i would have chicken and salad with bacon bits and feta cheese have some mayo with it. For supper no sweet patato or red vegtables no fruit for the first week. For supper have any meet you like with green vegtables or butternut or salad. It takes planning. Plan the day ahead. Do yoga or buy a exercise Dvd and do it when you feel like it. Have as much diet cooldrink or coffee and sweetner and full cream milk. Fat free things contain more carbs cause when you take the fat out you have to replace it with something to make it thicker. Good luck.

how do i speed up my metabolism?

why are you so convinced, what makes you so sure.

Where would you like to live?

I am from the Eastern Cape in South Africa. I am an African thru and thru i wouldnt want to live anywhere else :-)

You are depressed sweets, talk to someone or take a test on the net on happiness and rate your well being

your soul mate is someone who is compatible with your soul, so you need to get to know someone to see if you are compatible if the person makes you feel alive and happy and sad and gives your life meaning, its your soulmate:-)Its the funniest thing but you will know,you just know. In my opinion you dont have just one soulmate you can be compatible with many people. The one you end up with, the one worth fighting for, thats the one. Hope i made sense.

Hi, He reckons its performance anxiety…Anyone knows what that is?

I would kiss you right now if you were standing next to me!! That makes so much sense!! Since he was addicted to porn and mastrubated a lot! Sorry for the info :-) You really helped a lot. Thank you so very much!!

Thanks for the info, you helped a lot. I already feel better!!

and what now all the stress of this relationship has made me crack everytime i say how i feel or what bothers me he cuts off all contact with me he leaves me haning alone, no support. It feels like i am loosing control of my life, I feel depressed, and so sad i cant even explain it. I dont know where to turn.