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• Help me with a hard break-up posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  I really care for this guy I was dating. Seems he has to move away to further his career. I’…

• He’s not ready. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  I need some advice. I really like this guy but he’s not ready for a commitment. How can I s…

• Tarot Cards posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  What’s your outlook on Tarot cards? Does anyone have experience using them? Does anyone have…

• Ways to seduce a man.. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  For fun and entertainment…hehe….and maybe a few ideas I’ll try. Tell me, ways to…

• Math Depression posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  I currently have one more class left to graduate. It’s extremely hard and I truly don’…

• Mad love. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  love.…

• Help me find some motivational quotes! posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  Let’s get these good vibes flowing! ;) Any words of wisdom welcome.…

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Theresa's Top (1) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) my problem is small but i still feel like my world
  

  One things for sure, you shouldn’t compare yourself to the other girl. You know you have more class so it’s just a matter of being confident in the good things you like about yourself. Those are your strengths.
  
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago – voted for by smartikles31

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• How do you change EVERYTHING about yourself?
  

  Focus on what your best qualities are (those are your tools and assets)
  instead of what you don’t like.
  
  If you can’t think of any good qualities then that’s where you need to start creating!
  
  I can honestly say I dwell on the things I am not. I have little confidence.
  But I don’t want to live like this for the rest of my life.
  Everyone feels bad about themselves at times.
  Don’t beat yourself up kay?
  - written 2 months ago

• Anyone else experience self-imposed guilt over sometimes silly things?
  

  So many times I look back on the the dumb mistakes I made and how it’s affecting me now! Sometimes I wanna go back in time and start over. All I can do is change how I’m making choices today and not dwell or beat myself up.
  
  I really do want to heal and become stronger and confident. I care too much of what people think of me. How do I change that???? Hell if I know. Lol. I guess I’m not the only one.
  - written 2 months ago

• So, I completely die when people criticise me.
  

  Maybe you don’t have the best relationship with your dad or your brother. I think maybe your dad and brother are some what alike.
  
  Most important thing, don’t beat yourself up. There are many people in the world that go about things in a different way, look a different way, feel and love in different ways. Just because you do things your own way doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Do, feel, and be the way you feel most good about yourself. Everyone else can go suck an egg.
  - written 2 months ago

• I need an opinion.
  

  I’m a little bit confused too. If he was wondering where you’re going that’s a good thing cuz he was just checking up on you and maybe a little curious what you were up to?
  
  Currently, you think he might want to break up with you? For a second lets just look at what you’re feeling….Do you still want this relationship?
  - written 2 months ago

• Anyone else experience self-imposed guilt over sometimes silly things?
  

  I think for me it had to do with my upbringing. My mom tends to worry about everything! Total worry wort.
  
  My parents loved me :) but they didn’t give very many tools or education to process life! I tend to be a dweller. Someone once told me not to live in the past or worry about the future. Just live in the present!
  - written 2 months ago

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