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i still feel helpless. Even if I could wish these feelings away….I don’t think I want to ;p

I meant fight my urges :P

Where are the setting for that? What do I click on.

How do I begin to let go. What things can I do to be strong enough to find my urges. Lol.

how do you find someone on here? can you search by email?

I would suck to give him up….it sucks to be waiting for something that might never happen….it sucks to feel helpless.

I’ll be 28 on Oct 23rd :P

He turning 27 in Jan

Sheesh I need to find a man in his 30’s

Exactly. He’s not ready for a relationship and in order to keep things distant with me takes a lot of energy!! You’re exactly right he doesn’t want to hurt me. But the feelings are still there. so what the hell :(

I can always sense when he needs space. Right now I feel that so I quiet. I really feel like screaming! Lol. I feel like shaking him. Lol. I know he has a lot to learn. He once was engaged to a woman that broke his heart and left him for another man. He’s well over her because it’s been about 3 or 4 years. He was about 21 or something. I feel like his heart is sooooooo guarded.

I can be patient but I don’t want to be stupid. :P

Good enough to make him run. Lol. Almost like he’s afraid to start because he knows it would change his life. He lives about two hours away. We are at an age where there is so much change in our lives.

Maybe your right about wanting different things…..well actually….we are so similar but so different. We want the same things but we deal with emotions in different ways. When we connect it’s AWESOME but when it gets too good he runs away.

How do I find out what he wants in return? He’s very respectful and he’s feelings are genuine. Most guys get scared off when you open up a conversation about feelings.

True :) but it’s so hard to control myself with the flirting sometimes because we mix well like peanut butter and jelly. Can’t I still have flirting?

confidence rules all beauty. I think I’m good looking but currently I’m jealous of someone else as well….so…..i put my feelings to good use and when I’m at the gym I picture her and kick it into turbo! Take your frustration out on something positive activity that you can benefit from.