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bsically he is scared he aint gona live up 2 ur expectations,,or that he mite mess up etc….he is jus worried,,and worrien can affect a mance performance in da sack….

atleast u no its not u so u can stop frettin!

just a tip,,,y dnt u try oral??? get him goin n let him not ders nuffin 2 worry bout… always works..hehe :-)

do u mean he cant stay hard or that theres a phisical pain 4 him?? wot do u mean???….maybe the reason he leaves u alone is because he comes quick and is embarressed so he leaves the room???? i duno….

thanks alot…i hope all stays well for you…you’ve given me more insight n helped alot…thank u.xxxx

its good to hear u understand what is rong and take ur meds..thats lik me,,i no what my faults are and that my behaviour isnt normal at times,but i dont no what causes it half the time…..but id rather seek help now then wait till i really go off the rails and am untreatable…alot of my family members refuse meds,therefor they r a bunch of freaks….my dad takes his but he aint the same person he used to be….my docter has tried makin me take anti-deprssants many times ,but im scared incase they mess my head up more and make me gain weight……

so do u live a normal life then?? does ur partner understand u?? because i find it really hard keepin a relationship goin,,with friends and bf/gf’s

what do you mean by 2 sides??? do u hear voices or is it just that you have a possitive and negitive side to u?

my answer to you is any real man wouldnt look twice at a 15yo….enjoy your youth and find someone your own age..

thank you….so you dont think theres anythig rong with my brain then??? i cant stop thinkin that maybe there is…maybe people r right…cuz ive tried everything i learned 2 avoid gettin mad and hittin my boss,,but somthing in me had already decided he needed a punch….i just fliped….thanks 4 the advice….can i ask what you were diagnosed with??

just injot being young hun…dont wory bout the lil things in life,,lik bf’s,,,they will come and go as your growing up…the only person u need 2 worry bout and pay much attention 2 is yourself! focous on ur education and being the best u can….boyfriends will almost always b a pain in the *** thats just the way off life….ur just young and goin through wot most of us have or will go throgh…..enjoy being young! dont waste ur youth worrying(excuse my spelling)..xx

how old r u hun?

ok thanks

thats what i thought,,,but everytime i have 2 change consellers 4 sum reason or another,,i have to start from scracth again n that pisses me off…i understand that i can learn 2 have more self asteem,but will that be thre answer 2 my problems?? ive always bin this way…since i was a small child…im not sure if theres something rong with me,,,maybe i do have adhd….maybe i dont and i use that as an excuse somehow??? i really dont no…it just feels lik im always defending the fact that i cant help it,,,no matter how many times i end up in a situation,i always go there again with out thinkin….i get on everyones nervress,,,and get on my own even more….

i will take more consellin cuz i no it helps in the short term…but im more worried bout the longterm…because theres alot of mental health in my family,from both my mum and dads side…my dad included…ive always worrried about the fact im worried that im gona get sick 2 if that makes sence??? im chattin s*** now il shut up

yea it was for my anger…but she helped me with more then that…she said i have very low self esteem and i think to much…i no alot of people have these problems and get on fine,,,but i jus wana b diffrent so i can be what and who i am….