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Hello U.Nirk,
Long time since I last spoke to you, how are you?
Your friend,
Luck of the Irish (aka Ireland)

lol!

im also fine too hun :)
my laptop as been playing up to! its a ball ache at times :D

ive been busy with work&what not..
what about yourself hun:)

helllllllllooooooooooooooooooooooooooo :)

long time no speak! how are you buddy?

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i had a fab xmas lv,im a nan now!
his name is william hes gorgeous!

what about you lv,did you have a fab xmas?

nirky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey nirky :)
you have a good xmas lv?:)

Seasons Greeting and Happy Holidays
This is from Neutra

its very good to see all walks of life come &pay their respects to lost loved ones!

you feel warm&closer to god!

you sing carols etc,just like any other church :)
maybe you should go,make your peace with your dad!
maybe youll find the answers your looking for in spiritual guidance :)

yep!
i might go midnight mass,i havnt been for such a long time!

maybe i feel more xmasy then :)

yep!
i think its daft,to try &hide your age :)
you are who you are,end of lol!

we all grow up,some gracefully,some disgracefully lol!

seriously its whats in the heart that matters :)

ive no idea..i tell everyone my age!
im naughty 40&proud!!!

well i must be even better then cause im 5 ft 3″
so there…lol!

awwww sweet :)

what height are you?

i wish everyone could have the same relationship my son&i have :)

you&abby sound the perfect couple :)

aww,im sorry lv,
i take my sons out&go pictures sometimes etc

hell,i even go drinking with my son,hes my world :)

no offence lv,but you sound incredibly bitter towards your mum!why?

dya not go town with your mum?
pictures etc?

lol!what a poem!poor old nigel!

lmao!!!your a case lol!

lol!yep!disgracefully!!!

ok… lets here this rhyme :)

you dont bully her really..do you?

your mum?do you not have fun with her?
does she not make you laugh?

i believe in growing old disgracefully lmao!!!

*huge smiles*lmao!!!

you kids!you have no idea what us old!!!ladies&gents get up to lol!

well give you a run for your money anytime!

dont you have a laugh with your mum?

ok…i just turned into a parrot lol!!!!!!!

old!ill give you old lmao!!!!!!!!!

yep like i said..lay your cards on the table!
keep the communication wide open :)

lol!im talking about food with my man,
whatever are you talking about young man!whatever are you talking about young man ;)

o yessssssssss like cat&dog!!!

secret to a marriage/relationship is communication!
if youve got that you will succeed in everything,never be untrue to yourself,it only allows others to be untrue to you!
always lay your cards on the table!trust me…i know
i also know how to keep my man very happy lol!
ill tell you when your older ;)

eh!im the pro on that!

ive been with my hubby for 24 yrs!*crikey!you dont get that for murder do you lol*

ask any question,shoot!

lol!
young love eh!sweet :)
everyone has there ups&downs its called being a pain in the arse!
well weve all been there lol!

can you see yourself spending your life with her?

aww that sounds fab!
youve certainly got your head screwed on for a start!

how long you been with abby?

GCSE’s for a start. I wasn’t very good with school and never went back in to education to do them, but after these I’m planning to go on to Computer Science/Programming or CISCO Internetworking, then off to university IF I’m not with Abi (not leaving her for uni:( )But I’ve not told her that. haha

well if you was at college now id be telling you get some flamin work done lol!

what are you doing at college?
what goals are you aiming to achieve :)

you at school/work?

oh,bloody hell nirk!
life its all about borrowed time!
thats why you should make the most of what youve been given!
you should take life by the balls&take it for all its worth!
are you at school/work?
tell me a bit about yourself :)

eh!im usually up at 6!
thought id have a lie in :)

how did he die lv?

yep!me too :)
woke up at 8am,watched some tv in bed then fell back sleep again!im just coming round now lol!

im sure your dad knows how you really feel,you may find it hard to believe now,but in time it will get easier&im sure you done him proud!:)

lol!well you can call me both if you want lv lol!;)

how did you sleep?

helllllllllooooooooooooooo

nirk,im going bed lv,ill speak to you tomoz,ok
night m8y :)

nirk,dont beat yourself up lv,you didnt make your dad die!it was his time lv :(

thats amazing news about your dad,*however your dad was alraedy your hero*
we all get pissed off with our parents!hell!thats nature lv!we wouldnt be human otherwise!!!
what are you going to say,what are you sorry for?

I’d like to go myself. I want to say some things because I didn’t get to do my eulogy. and some others that I wouldn’t have said like sorry for everything and whatever.

Yeah, I feel really bad about it. It was my dad and I really messed it up. BUT! In 1988/89 when Richard Branson tried to curcumnavigate the globe in a hot air balloon and failed in the sea, my dad was on one of the rescue ships. :D So I found out something I never did and realised more or less he’s a hero. :) He was apparently in the papers and everything!

weres your mum?

mm,you cant help it can you,its like putting an extra palte out or getting an extra present,its friggin well hard!

do you feel guilty?
who are you going with ?

in answer to your question definately!

your running away!theres only so far you can run before you run out of breath!
face up to it nirk!
when was the last time you went to his grave?
you have to make your peace!!!
are you expecting him to walk thru the door?
do you know in your heart of hearts hes gone?
what about the rest of the family?

no lv,not at all :)
mm,what got me thru was having the support of my family&friends

when i was down,i had my faith!
are you a believer?(no worries if your not)

was you close with your dad?tell me a bit about yourself with him :)

what helped me at times in what way?

you mean grief?

i did actually..infact my hubby kept asking me why i was smirking…
he also laughed when i told him lol!

you kids..your a case lol!

a lot of people are not feeling xmas this yr!
everyone ive spoke to says the exact same thing!
it just dont feel like xmas :(
its true,im not feeling it either!!!
my mum died a yr ago in november,its hard but you just plod on :)

mm,true :)
lol!beginning of the end you mean lmao!!*cheeky bugger lol*

bet your counting the hrs eh!

aww,i didnt know honey..
if i had,i would of found some words of comfort :)

ive just answered your other post :)
you know what they say,absence makes the heart grow fonder *huge smiles*

your dad died a month ago??
im sorry lv,it must still be raw??

is she on here your gf?

why with your family in 3 yrs?

also why you not with your girl?

I know i dont even care for christmas but i might be spending this christmas with some family members so it might not be so bad

Its ok over here how about over where you are?

Hey U.Nirk, ive been good. How about yourself??