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• hello people,
  

  Thanks for the note D. My guess is things are on their way up but it is hard to tell when your the one living it. Counselor is an idea I’ve tried and liked, just changed jobs so am unable to go back to that person. Maybe it is time to look into that again with my new job’s insurance.
  
  “what will come is better that what has been” Lou Reed
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• ok,so i feel like i am friendless
  

  get those batteries and the sheet music. And/or start writing what comes out of you on the keyboard. You’ll be surprised. Everyone’s voice is horrible, just keep singing. They have studies that prove singing makes people feel better.
  
  I’m sorry to hear your mother has cancer.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• ok,so i feel like i am friendless
  

  well, you said all you do is listen to music, right? Have you ever tried playing an instrument or singing? Probably, you’ll say something along the lines of you hate your voice or have no talent or whatever. If you’ve ever heard the first Bright Eyes recordings from early to mid 90’s let me assure he couldn’t sing either.
  
  If you have no friends as you state and nothing to do but sit and wallow why not do sit with a guitar or at a piano or with a pen and paper. Looks stupid typed like that but sometimes all you have is an inanimate object in your hands and it is better that object make noise instead of incisions.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• ok,so i feel like i am friendless
  

  hello,
  
  you know what sucks about low self esteem is whenever you feel a little better you talk yourself into not believing you really feel better. At least I do. I’m sorry to hear about your friend situation. I am in a very similar place. New town, no friends, little money to entertain myself, little to do. Not sure I qualify to give advice, except, if you’re in school maybe try to talk to a few class mates or join a club. I think in general joining things is lame but I know that when I transferred colleges way back when, I accidentally ended up in debate and it turned out to be my entire social center. God, that looks sad after I typed it.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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