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• Been thinking about the past posted (7 months, 3 weeks) ago
  we all have things we regret we’ve all made mistakes That just raises the stakes regardless o…

• Why does it seem like some days Heaven itself conspires to push your buttons. posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  To test you and see if you can keep your calm. The more you seemingly pass the test the harder the c…

• OPINIONS… posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  It seems to me that the people who most ask for other peoples opinions are the first ones to not act…

• fundamental truths that will not change due to any circumstances save death. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  you are you even if you don’t feel or act like yourself. your the only you there is some peop…

• you made me cry v/s I cried today. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  my feelings do not get hurt often. I took someone as ahead of themselves. If i told you the honest …

• Mockery why do people do it and why do people fear it so. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  It is said you fight with what you fear. If that is true than it would make sense that people who do…

• lessons posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  life is just what you make it a heart isn’t whole till ya break it love isn’…

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smicki's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) I’m killing myself on Halloween.
  

  so in the future when your children feel exactly as you do now they can know that it is okay to quit? that life is so meaningless it can be thrown away at will? perhaps you should care more about the life you were given. No pain lasts forever and all adversity can be overcome but only if you want to overcome it.
  
  you can live on a street corner in a box and still have a chance to better your life dead your out of chances.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by Puck You, Plox Nork

• (1 vote) I liked the old me, the one that never needed anyone, ever.
  

  You obviously feel deeply lonely but I bet it was there before your girlfriend and you got together. Cutting has a draw of attention to it that has somehow made itself almost like your girlfriend… only it’s a self obsession. The fact that you have to hide it almost makes you and the act of it itself as bonded as you long to feel toward another human being … which is why you hide it. It’s an us against them syndrome which you can play with yourself and therin guarantee you will not be disappointed or betrayed as you must risk to bond with those outside yourself. That’s just my take on it but I am not nor ever have been a cutter, I much prefered punching things or sometimes people. We all deal with loneliness and stress differently.
  
  - written 6 months ago – voted for by fcell04

• (1 vote) Closed!
  

  doubtfully he is insane most likely he is simply crass, uncouth and without enough compassion to realize he ellicited your wrath. stop making others responsible and start acting not reacting to others. you allowed yourself to get pissed off, he is oblivious to your emotions and they are therefor only detremental or beneficial to you, so why waste your time on someone that insignificant to your being.
  
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by okei!

• (1 vote) Why do some people think that women are beautiful only when they are skinny as hell?
  

  self confidence is sometimes falsely fostered by believing something about us is somehow better than someone else. Other times it’s just preference… a shallow preference at times but still preference. Many people think thick is sexy I am sure some people think that’s crazy why can’t we just accept that there is no box set rules for looks or character and be real with each other and judge one another on an individual basis. There are alot of human games I refuse to play…
  
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by chunkymove

• (1 vote) Does the use of big words make someone sound smart?
  

  knowledge is power …
  
  that said I am kinda double sided here I will tell you why. I think it comes from your intention. as a child my mother would ground me from reading or writing anything not concerning school work. Being an avid reader addicted early to word in print this meant once I had read all my text books cover to cover for the year I was generally reading the dictionary.
  
  There have been times where I felt weird or different. People have sometimes not understood me and rather than ask they either took my meaning the wrong way or just never clarified leaving us both feeling misunderstood.
  
  However having such a foundation for learning and understanding words has been a blessing to me also when talking to professionals or reading documentation wherein they count on the majority of people not understanding and being too ashamed to ask and so in sign it anyway.
  
  Now if your memorizing words so you can wow people remember this when you use those words to make yourself appear smarter to the people around you. some will test you to see how deep that smartness really goes and if you only have a few special words there is no way to fake it. Also why … I would rather the person I am talking to know I understand them and know they understand me that’s the beauty of words… clear communication. If you don’t have that what good is knowing big words with no friends.
  
  you can spend your whole life trying to impress the world with big words and then someone come along and have a far greater impact with much smaller words because they knew exactly what words to use to bring everyone involved to a clearer understanding.
  
  no one wants to be made to feel less than regardless of their vocabulary and when you use big words just to feel smarter that is what you do basically put everyone else down unless you are speaking innately to your nature. Be real with people and people will be real with you. … just my advice.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by Sans

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• I would like to kill myself but I’m not really
  

  Look I would like to kill… think of what your saying man!!!! That statement so easily made is really really vague I mean if whatever it is you got that you carry wit you is an excuse to take your life or someone elses because believe me if your life is any less than mine, mine is worthless. But if you take mine while i was not threatening you then you view it as just as worthless. That said there will always be warriors and to never have to kill to stay alive is sometimes already a forgone conclusion. Then Again even when I tell my sad stories god always showed me I’m a lucky one. Sometimes…
  sometimes it’s just easier to cry… and sometime’s it’s not. Feel like a nut? me too… we all do sometimes because we are human and we have emotions but we are so busy trying to hide from them we sometimes fight to maintain our own illusion of ourselves.
  There’s alot of sometimes and if’s and maybe’s and ‘Once upon a times’. I might be too old for fairy tales but I still have some dreams. Some of them include some pretty big changes and changes can be scary. But if you survive … take this for irony you fight for your life to have the kind of life that will make you want your life only to take that said same life if you don’t gat it.
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• My Boyfriend is going on holiday with his ex?
  

  run… quickly
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago

• I liked the old me, the one that never needed anyone, ever.
  

  having someone to turn to and using someone as a crutch are completely different things
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• I liked the old me, the one that never needed anyone, ever.
  

  someone else won’t fix you, when you fix yourself you will have a whole relationship. your mind needs to stop thinking co-dependantly right now and you need to get to know you.
  - written 6 months ago

• I liked the old me, the one that never needed anyone, ever.
  

  You obviously feel deeply lonely but I bet it was there before your girlfriend and you got together. Cutting has a draw of attention to it that has somehow made itself almost like your girlfriend… only it’s a self obsession. The fact that you have to hide it almost makes you and the act of it itself as bonded as you long to feel toward another human being … which is why you hide it. It’s an us against them syndrome which you can play with yourself and therin guarantee you will not be disappointed or betrayed as you must risk to bond with those outside yourself. That’s just my take on it but I am not nor ever have been a cutter, I much prefered punching things or sometimes people. We all deal with loneliness and stress differently.
  - written 6 months ago

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