hey sorry if i upset u i did not mean too it does not mean he is just some men do that. Thanks for the advice the optimistic person in me wants to believe he still loves and one day will want me back. Im kinda thinking i dont want to build my hopes up to much i dont want him to hurt me again and doing that i will get hurt. i hope everything turns out well for you. if u ever need to chat just give me a shout im alwayshere and if im not il get back to asap sorry again if i offended you take care xxx