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• should i tell him how i truly feel about him?
  

  i know you must be getting annoyed now (me thinking of every possible thing that could go wrong)
  
  but seriously, wouldnt that look like “hey, ive helped you get out of your troubles, so now im going to take total advantage and try to go out with you okidoki??”
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• do i read into things too much?
  

  he’s very intellegent, me and him get along so well because we have the same use of vocab etc. and good accents etc.
  
  omg i sound like a toff - im not btw :)
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• should i tell him how i truly feel about him?
  

  but how can i do that without him thinking that im pushing him or being a little weird.
  
  but thanks for the help. its been really good - keep responding!!
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• please someone help me,just point me in the right direction.
  

  stay with your boyfriend. you love him and youve both put an effort into your relationship. dont throw that away…
  
  also, this “other guy” wants to wait 7 years, why would he say that? and how can he truly love you without being involved with you - sure he can have an infatuation, but i doubt love. also the fact that he wants to wait 7 years - you’ll be over 18 then and considered an adult - ulterior motives? (if he said wait 2 years it would be to obvious)
  
  stick with your boyfriend - you love him, and thats the greatest thing you can ever give and ever recieve, this other guy, maybe just try to be friends? but stick with your boyfriend girl!!
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• I am young.
  

  sure your lonely now, and your in a relationship - thats great. but what about ither aspects of life? education, having fun, going out?>
  
  all that will be given up for a baby which yeah, you may think will be fun to love but that child will be with you untill you die. think about having to buy its uniforms for school -giving up the money you wanted for those jimmy choos. parents evening, watching it grow and go to uni or work, and then letting go.
  
  in 30 years time will you still be feeling the same way?
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

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