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hey

just wanted to say bye and thanks and sorry.

working at a big communication company nicee ^_^

yeah, i feel like a prisoner working, i really hate it…. but thats life :)

yeah there is pros and cons in everything… the good thing is that you are more flexible to do big things like traveling and what not…

living on this site is really a bad option :)…

i slept at 8pm yesterday :D

well i first register in 2006, then i stopped coming for quite some time then okei(a user), asked me to come back, so i come here from time to time, and try to help out… but dont spend a lot of time here… a quick answer and am out…

i have tons of things to do and what not, so i cant spend a lot of time here, but a lot of trolls…

anyhow hope the hicking is going well…

take care

rtp stands for remember the poor ( this poem explains a little more i guess http://www.sergelb.com/2011/12/22/129/ )

yeah hope there is a way ^_^

nicee! what have you been working btw ?
good luck with the mountain climbing ^_^

haha yeah good thinking, climbing some mountains before age start taking its toll

hahahah the bluewolf has turned to rtp ^_^

things are ok at best i guess :D

am still in Lebanon, but I applied to some universities in finland to do an MS degree in computer science, the result will be out in May… but even if they are out am not sure i will be able to make it… it turns out that there isn’t a finland embassy in lebanon thus my only choice is to travel to turkey, am already low on money and time… so traveling to turkey to make my visa papers is really shit! + i need to pay like $600 for the visa WTF! so thats spending a lot of money, which i berly have…

hhahaha WTF u doing in India man! is it a vacation or work? so how are things with you!? do tell! ^_^

yeah its the bluewolf! :D

how are ya man!? how is everything going on with ya?

i think i might have a holiday

hey man its tricky ^_^

how are ya!?

how all is well

take care of urself man

Yeah it was time for a change. And i found something that looked just a little off. Which represent me very well i guess.

Hows things?

hey you

you got to bed

I dont know if you come here much anymore…. but i hope you do.. i just wanted to say i miss talkign to you and sorry if i did something wrong that made you not want to talk to me. :( im sorry

lol thank you :)

Haha, well said.

All good, so new ones aye?

How’s it going?

i feel worse,
got a new rant
i just hate to tell people how awful
i feel.

thanks

yes its me. lol i only changed it for another post, im changing it again now. im ok i guess, how are you doing?

No problem, i took ages to reply to your shout anyway, i often just check in for a few mins, so if i have a shout that will take a while to reply to, or would have a long reply, i leave it until i have more time to do it, sometimes that takes ages.

Hope things loook brighter soon :)

I very much know where you’re coming from, making yourself be someone that isn’t really the true you, you have maybe got to the stage where you don’t know who you really are any longer.
I did the same thing, i totally lost who i was.
Why was your mum like that?
Is she still that way?

Who defines ‘normal’? And, who can vouch for them?!

If you were settled & had the full set life, either the situation or the time wasn’t right for you, or you would have it now.

Why am I on here? Shit, there’s a huge list, but most of the time just being here helps, i hardly ever ask for real help.
I have spent years moving around, so any friends i make are just temporary, apart from the ones on help, they come with me everytime i move on.
I also like making people laugh.

My sis didn’t really come to visit me, she comes to about an hr & half away from here a lot, but doesn’t come to see me, she even brings my parents up, but they don’t come to see me either.
We only spent the week together as her partner stood her up on the last min, so she emailed me to see if i could make it, instead of her having to cancel the holiday. (great to feel wanted!!)

Yea we had fun at the pool, i think i taught him something about swimming, he just has a really short attention span!!

Omg have not been online in a month apparantly!…wonder how we keep loosing contact lol.
How have you been?

lol thats really cool, i like it !

well tbh i use it coz its what big al made for me when my name was atearfromheaven. i just thought it was cute and i liked the shooting stars

no its right i guess, never thought of it like that, you think i should change it?

ohh idk, cant you see it?

You’re welcome. :)

Sorry for the misunderstanding. That post has been re-opened.

-Freud
Moderator

Nephew has just decided, i’m taking him swimming.
I had promissed to give him some swimming lessons as he’s missed them while he’s been staying with me.

Will catch you later.
Have a good day :)

He was hiding it, thats how i found it.
We live together so as we’re sharing a house, it’s harder to hide it, plus, i know he loves me & he knows i will leave him if he does it again.
It’s just my opinion that it’s morally wrong, when you’re in a relationship, the only person you should see naked is the person you’re with, if you need to look at others, you clearly don’t really love or find your partner attractive & there must be something missing from your relationship.
Watching someone else in such an intimate way is one step away from cheating.

How can you expect someone to love the real you, when the you they get to know is an act of who you want to be?
(that’s the impression you just gave me from your comment, sorry if it’s wrong)
Having kids yourself is way different from being an uncle.
If you’re not rready to settle down with someone, even if you pretend to yoruself ytou are, it isn’t going to happen.

Putting weight on is a big part of it, thast would happen easily, i find it hard to control my eating, i can’t diet, i just have to exercise a lot to compensate for it, i think it would get out of control if i quit smoking, i also keep hitting stressful phases in my life & i would just go back to smoking as soon as the next one hits.

There’s some areas of the lake district that are stunning, i live there, but not near the part we went climbing, although my sis lives about 3 hrs drive away.
She comes up here all the time, but won’t come to visit me, she always goes to the other side :/

I’d love to visit Australia, but i’m terrified enough of British spiders, i think i would have a heart attack if i saw an Australian one.
I know you say you don’t get them in the city’s, but i hate city’s, i stay away from them as much as i can, it’s the outback & middle of nowhere places i love to see.

I have been with guys that have been into porn, but it’s a really big deal to me so those relationships have never worked, i’ve ended up leaving them.
Almost left my current guy not long ago because of it, i guess i really must love him as i’m still here, although if i find he’s doing it again, i’m gone.
I can’t understand people that watch it, it’s just gross & morally wrong, plus highly insulting to their gf’s or wives.

So, your romance issue - do you mean your a serial dater, or is it one night stands?
Can i ask how old you are? I got curious about your age when you mentioned not being ready for kids.
Once you get your relationships sorted & you’re with the rigt woman, then you will be ready for kids.
Not everyone has to have kids, it’s optional, i know society makes us think out live’s arent complete if we don’t have kids, but it’s becoming more & more common to not have them these days.

I don’t know what it is about smoking, i like doing it, but it’s expensive, it’s not having any problems on my health, but i would be able to do more if i quit, i do not want to put weight on if i quit though & i know i would, i already eat a lot, i love food & cooking, but i’m not sure i would have any more time to spend even longer in the gym or working out to burn off even more food!

It’s my sister that’s big time into mountain & fell climbing, but she asked me to go away with her for a week & do some, as i hadn’t seen her for ages & i had some time off work, i figured i would do.
We did it in the lake district, England.
You’re in Australia aren’t you?

I did think it was out of order to close them, neither were against the rules, neither we’re troll posts.
Mods get carried away with their over inflated sense of importance sometimes, yet bypass posts that SHOULD be closed.

Go on then, what’s your bad habit?

I see your post is closed, was just doing to add this one final comment.

Part of the reason i don’t want to quit smoking is, if you look up the definition of ‘quit’ it is to accept defeat :)