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• Guys please:
  

  Smicki is right,
  
  The issue’s you have are with yourself, in a MENTAL STATE, not physical. Which is what I was getting at, with my question, earlier. And what I mean by physical is POSSESSIONS! They mean nothing, when it boils down to it. They say money makes the world go round, but it doesn’t. It just makes it easier.
  
  Let’s say you have a well paid, TOLERABLE job, a nice car & your own house… What then? You’ll never be SATISFIED with what you have, unless your satisfied with how you FEEL!
  
  Does your dad know how you feel? Does he realize how UNHEALTHY it is to keep this guy in your house. The fact you raised about him not spending much time at the house cos he’s out with her, isn’t a positive thing! It makes you more INSECURE, with him not wanting to spend that time with you & once again, adds to your ANXIETY!
  
  How much do you TRUST the person that you console with? Do you have RESPECT for her?
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• Guys please:
  

  Hi, My name is Matt
  
  The replies that you have been getting about your problem is exactly what’s to be expected from the general public. Although their comments have good purpose & positive content, they’re trying to kill too many birds, with one stone.
  
  The source of your problem has nothing to do with anything material, like the fact that you have this guy, who u believe doesn’t love u at your dad’s or that u have no money or an education to boast about! These can & most likely will be the icing of the cake, to anxiety & depression & are not exactly hard to see, but it’s useless & a waste of time concentrating on.
  
  I’m going to ask you a question now, that you may react stubbornly to & think that it’s ridiculous, but if u can find it in you to trust another, then answer me this… Have you considered speaking to someone professionally?
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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