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• Ever have one of those days where nobody listens to you?
  

  I went through the same thing as a kid. It didn’t help that I got a massive throat infection when I was 19 and could barely speak at all for a while. People still tell me I talk too quietly and I’m 40! I *don’t* think the other person’s advice about yelling more is good, because it can send the wrong message about your attitude and possibly damage your vocal cords. I’ve found that it helps to touch people on the shoulder to get their attention and move in a little closer. I’ve never had anyone indicate that I was “invading their space” by doing so. Most importantly, try to be the kind of friend who’s so enjoyable and engaging that people will take the time to listen to you. Don’t get sullen about not being heard, just get proactive. Best wishes from someone who’s been there.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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