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• So im home alone tonight, missing the boy who broke my heart days before my 21st birthday.
  

  thanx for your reply on my post. sometimes it takes to hear it from someone else not in the situation to believe it. Trust me if he really realy cares for you/loves you he will understand what ur going through and how important he is to you. I know this hurts right now but sometimes its hard to break ego of men and like someone wise wrote on my post it takes a real man to make the moves…can u get a refund for your trip or is it too late? can u sell it to someone else? i am suggesting getting rid of the tix because it will be hard to go on this trip and not have him but u have to realzie if he wants you he will come back but maybe not in time for the trip so try to get rid of the tix or try to find someone you could go with. might be a good distraction for you too and will give u time to think about things and put them in prespective. hope all works out for the best!
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• Is this cheating, What would you do?
  

  Yeah I think he knows by now exactly how I feel in more than enough words.Nomatter how hard it is I am going to carry on with my life and if he decides to make a move then take it from there…thanx a lot everyone I really really appreciate it! I hope I can be of help to you guys too sometime.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• Is this cheating, What would you do?
  

  What is most hurtful right now is that he is not showing any sense of urgency. like he is trying to wait for god knows what? figure out what he needs to do or say, wait for me to calm down and not be as angry, time do some healing so his task would be easy I don’t get why he just wants to show no sense of urgency or fight like you said he is waiting to figure out what his next move should be or waiting for time to pass who knows. he said in another email that he wants to fix things but doesnt know how he said he will do whatever it takes to make it right and get back the trust but it wont happen overnight but the whole day he hasant contacted me if he does its either a text or an email. why is he not showing the urgency? does it mean he doesnt care enough? should i be waiting for him to “find the right time” and come plead his case (that is if he will even want to do that) or should i not play the waiting game? because i have made my moves and the next move is clearly his…
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• Is this cheating, What would you do?
  

  Thank you so much! I think I know what I need to be doing right now but its just so hard to convince my stupid heart which just doesnt want to accept that he could mean such a thing but ‘rememberpoe’ thank you sooo much. ur last post really puts everything into prespective. i cant thank you both enough.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• Is this cheating, What would you do?
  

  You are all right. thank you for putting it as it is. And really the only thing he has done so far to even try to save the rship is write long emails and throw words around he says he is too ashamed to show me his face and cant face me but he made it very clear that what he did was not that serious and thats why he wont beg or cry or anything. All he has are big big big eords of how sorry and ashamed he is and I dont think that is enough right?
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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