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• I have not been very happy over the last few years, I’m allegedly very good at my job but I feel anxious about it, it is very stressful. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  I have had two miscarriages - one that nearly killed me and have now been told I can have an operati…

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• (1 vote) I feel very very guilty had a very bad laps 2 days
  

  Ok… have you tried cognitive behaviour therapy?… you say you are hurting your family…yes possibly true but mostly you are hurting yourself…
  
  you say you don’t want to live anymore…
  
  do you actually mean you don’t want to live in the way you are anymore?
  
  cutting is a behaviour…not the whole of life
  
  all behaviours have purpose even if it is based on illogical thinking
  
  i really feel for you…it sounds lonely
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by babacup

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• I did something really bad which lead me to find out something quite upseting.
  

  sounds like good idea to spend time more honest friends. good luck :-)
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• I feel very very guilty had a very bad laps 2 days
  

  Ok… have you tried cognitive behaviour therapy?… you say you are hurting your family…yes possibly true but mostly you are hurting yourself…
  
  you say you don’t want to live anymore…
  
  do you actually mean you don’t want to live in the way you are anymore?
  
  cutting is a behaviour…not the whole of life
  
  all behaviours have purpose even if it is based on illogical thinking
  
  i really feel for you…it sounds lonely
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• I feel bad about myself, for some reason I can’t seem to shift it.
  

  hypnosis is good for some people… sounds silly but paul mckenna does a ‘change your life in 7 days’ cd that you listen to for about 20 mins a day and it could help… worth giving a go… good luck
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• I feel very very guilty had a very bad laps 2 days
  

  You say you are seeing a doctor…Have you got a counsellor? Is it just self harm or have you other stuff going on … are you happy?
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• I did something really bad which lead me to find out something quite upseting.
  

  I think your friends sound a bit strange!!!! I guess you don’t normally hack into peoples’ private stuff??? I wonder if you did because you suspected that something didn’t ring true. My advice is to not get too fixated on this … maybe try and develop a wider circle of (real!)friends and then what these friends do will not be so important. The greatest goal in life is happiness :-) good luck
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

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