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Lots of Americans care about what is going on in the world but we cannot stop our holidays and our special occasions everytime some sort of disaster strikes the world….otherwise we would NEVER celebrate everything. Listen I understand the concept of America to the rescue! but the truth is that the world didnt exactly stop celebrating when 9/11 happened and Katrina struck…so sorry

just ask him…from what it sounds u have nothing to loose but much to gain if the man u love feels the same way about u

very different…here ppl listen to me and even take my advice. I can use my life experiences to help others that believe that im insightful and have good words of advice. on the outside my life is full of problems …hauntings from the past..a juggly present and uncertanty about the future and everybody thinks im an angry person. ppl c me for who i am here. i love it

lol…u have a problem…i feel ur pain. she is not romantically special to you so just ask her….let her give u a list and choose one that u can afford….girls are not hard to figure out…just ask!

[quote cabesa de fuego]I’m sorry, but if there isn’t a threat of or any physical violence, you are experiencing very normal family affairs. If you feel like you are in danger of physical harm, call the police. Otherwise just yell back at them and deal until it stops or you can leave.[/quote]

actually verbal abuse can b much more damaging and harmful than physical abuse. the old saying “sticks and stones can hurt my bones but words dont mean a thing” is the biggest lie ppl tell their kids. word not only hurt but can actually “brainwash” people. verbally abusive people are very manipulative and can make their victims actually believe what they are saying. Also verbal abuse is not just sisters fighting over a sweater or a parent complaining about the car with an empty tank of gas. It is humiliation and degrading…it is constant putdowns, and a kick when your down.
I feel your pain and all I can say is fighting back is not gonna solve your problem…you need live with them until you canleave safely and you will experience true freedom….good luck and God bless

on bad days i like to listen to three doors down and 3 days grace! they are not heavy but rock enuf to let my anger out and feel so much better.

i agree with berboor..no matter how long the night…the sun will have to shine eventually. the darkest hour is right before dawn….get through the bad days to get to the good ones. People are unreliable…u cant depend on them to c the good in the world…u have to bring that out from urself,,,,honestly i was in that place and i know that it sounds corny as hell but do some community service, a homeless shelter or better yet go to an oldfolks home…u can hear so many remarkable stories and meet people that u will label as saints but ull also c that they feel the same way about the world as u do…if we r alone then we r all together in that too! xoxo

The one thing that ive leart from life is that u can be with a million people and feel lonely. u can be fragile and appear made out of stone. You can b racing through the darkest hours of ur life and appear on cloud #9!…..the bottom line is that u need to realize that as bad as the world seems its much better than death because nobody knows for sure what happens after death. bottom life the knowledge of “life sucks” is much better and much more reassuring than the “unknown” after death. I mean what if God was for real and so was hell??? did u think about that? what if u kill urself and u go to hell for doing it, then u willspend eternity in pain. im not saying that i believe that but what if?????
its not like we have someone that came back from the dead and told us what the heck happens after we die!
Another point is that u need to know that life is not a fairytale…u will find the world a much better place once u stop expecting people to know whats going on inside of u or save u or feel sorry for urself cuz “nobody knows what ur going through” that is really irrelevant. U Know whats going on with u and thats all that matters.
Im sorry if that sounds harsh but i need t put it out there so that u ask urself some serious questions about life, death and self pity.
Im not being judgmental…i was down that road and i actually went through with it but failed by a miracle. My life is far from being happy right now but its much better without self pity and weeping over spilt milk!

some people do choose to be sick and nasty…others dont know any other way….part of making the world a better place and is being understanding and not so judgmental. remember that Cruelty is taught…the first emotion that people know is love for their mothers…thats what i believe is the purest human emotion that everyone is born with but cruelty in this world changes poeple.

Yup this makes feel smart! lmao…and for those that can understand more than one language…research has proves that we use more of our brains and that we have a higher ability to pick up new languages than those that only speak 1!!!! we r awsome!

If u are 17 u have the right ofconfidentiality even from ur parents on the matter of ur medical records. i have been on depression medication and know many people that are on them too….the side effects that u are saying are not weird or made up…many people feel them too. tell ur doctor and tell her not to tell ur parents about it. u simply have to work with the doctor to change the dose or the medicaton itself. Sometimes the numb zombie feeling doesnt go away,,,,and many times depression medicine actually make u feel worse…so if ur parents dont listen then go to ur dr. and if ur dr doesnt listen leave the dr and find another 1! good luck and God bless

do u love him?

call the children’s help phone…its 1 800 668 6868…they are a lot of help especially for the fact that it is anonymous!

okay…get out of that rut of urs and face the teacher. liking someone is nothing to be ashamed of. following ur heart is a virtue not a sin. u either go to him and tell him how u feel and the fact that u want an actual relationship with him…or u pick urself up and move on. im sorry if i sound harsh but u cant keep urself down like that because u think that he knows that u like him! COME ON WOMAN, THERE ARE WORST THINGS IN THIS WORLD!!!!

go to him and tell him how u feel silly!!! u sound very much in love…dont waste another moment….my theory in life is that if u think in a year or two u will wake and say “what if i did this or that” u should do it regardless of the consequances! Go to him hun!! :):) :)…et us know how it works out.