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The purpose of marriage is a promise to commit to one another for life. Sex outside of that promise could result in difficulty with the person you do choose for life.

I’m sure he likes you. yay.

Sex bonds two people together. My concern is “are our hearts in the right place?” There needs to a promise (ie: wedding vows) for it to be healthy. Reason being, if there is no promise in place, you are not committing yourself to one another. Sex will then base itself upon lust, which in the end will leave you with a large void in your life.

Read what I said earlier… I hope it helps at least a little…

[quote Moey10]I can’t put it away if it’s a thing I need like water[/quote]

Even water is a temporary satisfaction. There’s one thing everyone needs…. sometimes they have to get to a very low spot to find it. Message me if you want to know: jesse (dot) prudhomme (at) gmail (dot) com

Focus on what you have, not on what you don’t have. Focus on what you can do, as opposed to what you can’t. Pinpoint the source that brings you down. Pinpoint why you feel either unwanted, rejected, useless or meaningless. Recognize the difference between LIES and TRUTHS. If you feel bitter after hearing about something, it may be connected to a lie.

Determine whether or not cutting is an escape route.

Yeah… Can’t help with that.

Well… If I were rich, I’d be glad to help you.

you need better titles

It’s difficult to say more than that without anymore information.

That depends on how old you are. In the teens, people are less likely to date people with a 3-year age gap. That’s not to say it hasn’t happened, though.

Possibilities:

-It’s possible he thinks you are good-looking, but may not want to date a girl 3 years younger.
-It’s possible he is has no moral values and is just a horny guy looking for something selfish.
-It’s possible he is just being friendly.

Now, no guy should be ‘too’ friendly to a girl, unless he has ulterior motives. “Friendliness” doesn’t go beyond a hug. And even excessive hugging that is initiated by him is a clue that he has gone beyond friendliness.

[quote help.4u]Oh that’s fine. I agree something isn’t normal. I just don’t think it’s the child.[/quote]

Sounds like help.4u had a previously BAD experience with this… or they’re just assuming things. Given the information provided in this thread, we can’t assume that the parent is “failing his child”.

I have too little experience with children to comment, but maybe I can offer a little inspiration?

Things might seem to be going downhill now and your efforts might seem to be ineffective and useless at times….. But if you don’t give up, you can never fail. “Go back a little to leap further. John Clarke”

If you really want this girl, do whatever it takes. You might have to get ready for rejection time and time again before she trusts you once more.

Good luck.

okay… but I don’t think it will fix anything though. Whoever mentioned battery memory seemed to be on the right track.

Maybe try charging it in a different plug outlet? Make sure it’s a good connection. I’ve had the problem before where my outlet was causing my charger to go on and off and ended up screwing up my battery nicely.

yea.. the freezer wont do anything. That myth comes from the idea of storing them in the fridge when they are not in use.

manufacturers store li-ion batteries in cool areas and drain them to about 40% to keep them lasting as long as possible.

yea… i think people are more open to say “joyful” things when it’s in a text message too. But once you’re talking on the phone, it doesn’t come naturally to exchange lovely phrases with each other.