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When you look at a picture of yourself, it is not the same as you see in the mirror because our faces are not completely symetrical and the mirror image we see is reversed. So you look different to yourself and it seems off. If you hold up a picture of yourself to the light and look at the backside of the picture you will see yourself as you would see yourself in a mirror and it looks better because it is what you are used to seeing

sounds like you may be talking about the struggle between guilt or shame of having an affair and the emotional and physical attraction involved in it.

if you go in for complete anasthetic, they give you the anasthetic through your arm and you arent aware of anything in your mouth until after the surgery. I was a little sore in my mouth afterware but nothing serious

If you can, get them to give you anasthetic. I went completely under and all I remember was counting back from 100 and then waking up in my bed at home. At the next apointment the nurse (who I didnt remember) said that I was funny and that I was saying “I’m walking on the moon” and “Gimme the keys, mom, Ill drive home”

Just curious, but do you feel like the person you like is getting away or like your loosing an opportunity with them. The symbolism in the dream might represent this.

Congratulations on your contract. That’s cool. Stay strong in your convictions. It’s easier to say never in one situation and harder on the set. Those guys can be slick. But I’m basing this on what I’ve seen in the movies so I don’t know. At the very least you can honestly say you’ve been offered a modeling contract.

Think about donating your time too, like a mentor program or something. Volunteering really makes a difference. Its a subtle difference in someones life, but the small things are what matters to people, not just saving a life or something.

The most common gift I got (and the best in my opinon) was a card with money or a check in it. and if you have to go to the graduation, bring a book or video game or something because they are long and boring.

If you break up with someone or something and they cut, its still their choice. If it was something like this you are giving yourself too much credit and feeling too much guilt and taking away the other persons choice and responsibility

Biochemically, it binds to GABA receptors and prduces greater amounts of dopamine, which makes you feel good. It also makes you less inhibited so you do things you normally wouldn’t do (like sing kareokee). A lot of people drink to escape depression or anxiety or other feelings.

The best way to get attention is to ask for it straight up. “Can we do something together?” “Can we talk?” etc. Everyone needs attention and contact. Lying and other negative ways of trying to get attention only end up in getting negative attention. Which beats no attention…but also other consequences. It’s OK to want and need attention from others.

Maybe if you talked to your parents and told them you would try to come up with some of the money. Then you could rake leaves, babysit, mow lawns, collect recycling, etc. They would see how committed you are to it to help with purchasing it.

I’m sorry to hear your having to deal with all of this. You definitely dont deserve it. It’s hard when your parents arent much of a parent.

Hey Joy
did you have to go pee really bad when you woke up? Sometimes you can incorporate images like this when your body is uncomfortable.

If you have hope, you can get through anything. Without it, even the smallest problems are arduous.